Was married when i was 26 (year 2004). He bought a house only under his name but the monthly instalment is me to paid. In addition i got to pay other expenses is his phone bills, car loan.. because his income is not stable. Since married we not staying together because im working in outstation if not i can't cover those expense, it has been this way for about 5 years ago before we getting marry. In year 2005 my husband went to oversea for working then he also got give me some money. Althought after married we not stay together but in between we got a lot of arguement until we decided to divorce. After i find a lawyer to prepare divorce document to give him sign then he give a lot of excuse not time la.. Until this week he give me a reason why he not sign the document because he want me returned the jewerlly and money gave by them.. Im very disappointed with this relationship.. So pls do advice what i can do about this situation legally.
2007-01-18 15:47:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sorry to hear this... i think u need some free mind to think but if u still not able to make up then go legally
2007-01-18 16:03:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, divorce shouldn't be banned. That's a rather silly idea. Ever since there have been marriages, there have been divorces...or living situations that are the same as divorces. Back when divorces were much harder to get, there were plenty of husbands and wives who lived apart. Both parties would have been happier if they'd been able to get a divorce. Divorces are already expensive enough, I think. I've seen siblings go through divorces, and inlaws. Divorces have quite enough barriers to them. Perhaps we should go back to requiring a waiting period before marriage, though. I don't think that it's totally unreasonable to require a couple to wait a week or so before getting married, unless one or another is about to be deployed. I think that maybe we should be making marriage harder to get into, not get out of. Marriage shouldn't be an impulse activity.
2016-05-24 05:49:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure- get a divorce like the other 50% of the population that feels that it's better to bail on your marriage than to try and work on it. Why do people think that marriage is a piece of cake? It takes lots of work....people just don't want to put the time and effort into it.
2007-01-18 15:52:35 · answer #3 · answered by Katie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is fighting my divorce too. I just hired an attorney, had the papers filed in court. He can argue what he thinks he should get in court. Problem is in my situation, he had the house in his name too and we were not married long enough for me to have any rights to it (lived there 6 years, married 3).
Just go to an attorney and fight it out in court. He's playing with you and keeping you financially responsible for everything.
2007-01-18 15:54:55 · answer #4 · answered by Wildflower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact you local Legal Aid Office. they are in every state and most counties. they go on a sliding scale, so its free to most people. look in your phone book, call your county court clerks office or your states Bar Assoc for the number.
they will know what to do and all of your options (the laws in your state).
questions; if you want to dig a bit to find out some laws in your state, here are some links. just click on your state and find the subject you need.
http://www.divorcelawinfo.com/states.htm
http://www.divorcehq.com/spprtgroups.html
http://www.divorceinfo.com/statebystate.htm
http://www.divorcenet.com/states
http://www.divorcesource.com/
http://www.divorcecentral.com/
http://www.divorcelawinfo.com/calculators.htm
http://www.helpyourselfdivorce.com/child-support-calculators.html
http://www.divorcehq.com/deadbeat.html
http://www.divorceinfo.com/
2007-01-18 16:48:05 · answer #5 · answered by Yvette B yvetteb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he's jerkn ur chain so he gets out scott free. it's blackmale too. i won't give u this unless u do this. yeah i agree with the attourney an well tell the guy to go to h e l l
2007-01-18 15:55:18 · answer #6 · answered by chad_27292 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the jewelry and give him nothing. Let your attorney handle his excuses.
2007-01-18 15:58:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to a lawyer. you can get a divorce even if he refuses to sign
2007-01-18 15:52:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get an attorney and listen to the attorney,, not the husband, he is a jerk.
2007-01-18 15:51:50 · answer #9 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that you're not giving ANYTHING back, and you're still getting a divorce......whether he signs or not!
2007-01-18 15:53:47 · answer #10 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋