I get along with the people I work with, but I don't have any close friends. I also have some friends (nice word for associates) that I've met along life's journey (some from childhood, college, etc.) But I really don't (or can't) "connect" with anyone. Is it because I'm an only child or do you think that there are other issues at hand? What sometimes bothers me is that I have NO DESIRE to form meaningful relationships. I feel very peaceful right now, but will I regret this when I get older? Will I want friends when I hit my "golden" years? And will it be too late then?
2007-01-18 15:47:41 · 8 answers · asked by JOURNEY 5 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I have a very dynamic and eccentric personality. It is easy for me to appear Social but in fact, when I get home, that is exactly where I want to be, most of the time, or traveling, but by myself. I enjoy retrospection and introspection. This is my personality.
If you enjoy your space the way you do, then I would assume that you will most likely enjoy it just as much in the future.
There's nothing wrong with being a private person.
2007-01-18 15:54:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is anything wrong w/ not wanting to cultivate meaningful relationships at a point in your life. If you are content, be at peace with that.
At some point you may feel like getting out there more, but for the time being just enjoy life.
And I can't think of anything else I would rather*not* do than talk on the phone. I hate the phone. I hate calling people and I hate it when people call me. I would much rather people e-mail me and I can answer them when I am able and ready to.
2007-01-18 15:56:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I cannot answer your question, but I am the same way. I hate talking on the phone, hate small talk. I like going out with people once in a while,but I feel content just staying at home. I thought it was depression and that I was a bad person and friend but now I just think its the way I am. My husband picks on me b/c I don't have any "true" friends. I just find it hard to let anybody in. I used to be the total opposite, weird huh?
2007-01-18 15:56:05 · answer #3 · answered by kellie w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Feeling very peaceful is what I pray for everyday! Sounds like you are right where you need to be. If it is a new thing a recent development, that calls for a bit of outside help but if it just you... hey be glad you are secure in your own company!
2007-01-18 15:53:25 · answer #4 · answered by sparklepup 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your fine, some weeks ill be a recluse yet last year I was able to travel the word by myself and make friends with complete strangers and do crazy things. ;)
Home is my comfort zone and its where I feel most at peace ;) dont feel bad it doesnt mean your antisocial
2007-01-18 16:00:33 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think this is odd. A lot of people would not like to have friends, or at least close friends. If a person is sure about them selves they don't need any one to influence them any way different, and that what a lot of friends try to do.
2007-01-18 16:00:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmm...this reminds me of myself. I don't think it's because your an only child, because I have a brother. And I know what you mean, and I actually too would like to know this answer.
2007-01-18 15:51:57 · answer #7 · answered by Coolbear4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are like me, and for the most part we are very happy on our own. Don't feel obligated, you are who you are.
2007-01-18 16:18:21 · answer #8 · answered by Trublood 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋