i want to know if im pregnant im 14 and dreading every moment of worrying?

Question

i had sex with my bf like after christmas like on the 26. 27.28 adn bla but hes my only adn my first i took birth control on the 24 but i didnt take ne more after that until i got home the 31 or something then i had sex again the next weekend without protection. im bloated and its the eighteenth of january and im worried freaking im reckless. i cant sleep adn im just rele worried idk if i am or not but idont get huungry very often only around like lunch at school sometimes and then like around bedtime but thats usual. i dont know exactly when im suppose to start and ive been having a lot of discharge and i dont iknow please help me

Answer 1

you got pregnant and you can't even spell. go freaking tell your parents. You made a mistake and learn from it and don't do the same mistake again.

Answer 2

I'm not sure what to tell you, since you don't know when you were ovulating or when your period is due. I do know that if you are pregnant, a home pregnancy test will probably show a positive two weeks after unprotected sex. Since the last time you had sex was the first weekend this month (if I read your post right), it should show up on a pregnancy test. Go out tomorrow and buy one, a good one like First Response Early Detection, which will be the most accurate. If you don't have money, you can call a local pregnancy clinic and they will give you a free test.

I think many of us have been where you are, maybe not so young, but it is a scary thing. For most people, that is all it is, a scare. Hopefully, for you it is just that. If you are anything like me when I had my scare, you will become very good at remembering to take your pill everyday. The scary thoughts I had in my head made me be a lot more careful, because the alternative of becoming a mom before I was ready was awful.

So, take a deep breath, go get a test and find out. No matter what, you have many alternatives and everything will work out fine if you just take it one step at a time.

Answer 3

First of all you may be pregnant if you didn't take your pill. The pill usually works only after you take it for a full week. I learned that lesson. Second you should get a pregnancy test as soon as possible because sometimes when you are on the pill you still get your period if you are pregnant. And if you are the baby still isnt a baby yet so you can get the E pill for free at any Teen Health Centers in your local area just to make sure. If it doesnt work it will be okay. I got pregnant when i was 14 too no it wasn't fun but i learned a valuable lesson my parents supported me and im still in school planning on actually graduating early and im going to go to college. It turned out better than i thought and i love my baby girl. But if you know you cant handle it do those things fast before the baby is already developing!

Answer 4

Okay...all I can say is that if you're not, you better be careful next time, AND write your periods down. Second, 14 is really not a good age to have sex, mostly because of the pressures of middle school. I'm sure your body is ready, but when you get down to it, are you really emotionally ready?

Most of all, just wait. STOP freaking out! The more you freak, the more likely you'll be to have the symptoms and then you'll be in worse shape than you are. It's been less than a month, so I'd say that if you haven't started your period by the beginning of Feb., take a home pregnancy test, If it comes out negative, don't get your hopes up. Wait again, and take a second test a few weeks later.

If after all of this, you're still worried, tell your parents and then schedule a doctor's appointment. But please, if you are, don't abort. Have the baby, and if you feel like you can't possibly care for the child, adopt him/her out. But please, don't abort.

Answer 5

buy a test. you can get them for a dollar or two now. I would also suggest that you take action and quit having unprotected sex. Get on some birth control like depro vera or something where you don't have to worry about getting pregnant, but you should also beware of std's.

I can't believe that at 14 you are facing these issues. I went through it at 17 and that was hard enough.

Some signs of pregnancy are swollen or tender breasts, nausea, cravings, and smells can irritate you. It sounds to me like you most likely are not pregnant, because discharge happens if you have an infection, perhaps a yeast infection, not pregnancy. Bloating usually happens like the week before menstration, so just take a test and be careful from now on.

Answer 6

ok im going to guess you got the birth control from a doctor or clinic.. did they NOT teach you how to use it or what? you need to take it every day, without fail. perhaps the patch wouldve been a better choice for you or something you dont have to remember. a condom would have been a good idea as well. one day of birth control before you had sex for 3 days in a row is not going to protect you. you could very well be pregnant. go to the dollar store and get a pregnancy test and find out already.

Answer 7

First of all, if you are not pregnant I hope you will be more careful in the future. You can take a pg test after about 5 days of your missed period. The symptoms of pregnancy are extreme fatigue, breast tenderness, feeling sick to your stomach. Those are just some symptoms and everyone is different. Try to figure out when your last period was and count the days. If you are usually pretty regular and it has been past the number of days your cycle usually is you may want to take a pregancy test.

Answer 8

When are you/were you supposed to start your period? All you people that are on here criticizing her and lecturing, you should be ashamed of yourselves. She came on here and posted this message to get some answers, not to get lectured. Leave that to her mother. Hun, you need to figure out when your period is due. If you are already late, you can try a home pregnancy test. It may or may not come back positive. They say, if you haven't started and you're not sure on the date of your period, you should wait atleast 19 days to take a pregnancy test. If the test comes back postive, wait about a week or so and then go to the doctor where they will do a blood test! I wish you the best of luck sweetie!!

Answer 9

Ok, from reading what the other responses have been, I can see that they have been NO help whatsoever. I suggest visiting a pharmacy (where you don't know the people who work there), and buying a pregnancy testing kit. Take the test - you will know within 2 minutes if you are or not. Then I suggest either speaking to your mother, or a counsellor for your options.

Answer 10

Try a urine test and see if it comes up positive or negative. If you are still concerned have a blood test at the doctors.


If you have sex you should be old enough to deal with the consequences.

Girls your age should be going out to the movies not worrying if they are pregnant or not. You have your whole life ahead of you to be an adult, so be a kid now as you only get one chance then it's GONE!!

Answer 11

you know what hunny your 14.... you shouldn't be having sex in the first place.... especially without pertection.... the pill is only affective if taken every day at the same time. you should go to a pharmacy and get a pregnancy test and take it somewhere where your parents will not find out about it cause theyll kill you.... i know that if you were my daughter or even my brothers g/f ( who is 14) id kill you.... if you arent pregnant good for you... maybe your lesson will be learned! take your pill consistantly everyday and use condoms this way you wont have anything to worry about!