Well there is a girl that I met in October 2005, the semester I started college. I began to like her more and more everyday, we became very close and by December I couldn't take it anymore so i told her how I felt. It didn't turn out exactly how I wanted as we were just labeled as friends. It took me a long time to get over this fact, I even cried the first couple nights.
When I saw her again is when I realized maybe she will feel the same way about me someday. But that didn't matter to me that much, I didn't care that we were only friends, as long as I was with her I was happy.
Some of my friends tell me just wait a little bit, she will realize that you are the only guy for her and that she truly loves you.
It has been over a year and we are still very close and she doesn't know how I really feel. I really don't know what to do or how to tell her that I want more than friendship, or that she is always on my mind and how much I love her.
I really do love her very much, I need help!!!
2007-01-18 15:32:30 · 4 answers · asked by Slick Rick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
sweetheart you need to move on, you have made it clear how you
feel and she does not feel the same, time to move on, the only
person that will hurt by this is you. you have already waste
so much of your time. you can have found your soul mate while
you pinning over her, time to let this go and go out there and find
your love she is out there you just need to go out there.
2007-01-18 15:40:00 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell you this but she already knows how you feel and the fact that you are spending more and more time together only proves that she likes to be liked not that she has realised her feelings for you. Trust me on this, i was in the same situation, only i was the girl. There was a guy that was really nice and i felt that i could tell him anything, then he told me that he liked me and i had to make up some excuse about not being ready to be in a relationship because basically i didn't feel that same way about him. Don't take it personally, she doesn't want to hurt you, nor does she want to loose your friendship.
You just have to decide whether you can be just friends with her
2007-01-18 23:44:31 · answer #2 · answered by Danielle F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read once that you can not make someone love or like you. If she has told you that she does not like you as mre than a friend then I would find someone else. Yes, it is hard to get over someone you care for but pepole break up and get divorced all of the time. If you wait a while she may like you but I wouldn't wait for her.
2007-01-18 23:41:18 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her "remember that december when i told you that i _______ed you (if she remembers) say yeah i just wanted to tell you that i still have those feelings for you and they have gotten stronger. (if she doesnt remember) say you know when i told you i ____ed you then say well i still have those feelings for you. then ask her if she thinks she could ever have those feelings for you or if she has any for you. well yeah good luck with this i hope she responds positivly.
2007-01-18 23:48:09 · answer #4 · answered by tina2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋