i need help. i have a dance on friday and i would like to grind with some girls but im not quite sure what girls want me to do while im grinding with them?
2007-01-18 15:31:19 · 12 answers · asked by louis 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Dancing
Well anytime when in close intamcy with someone, you need to make them feel secure. If grinding with her back to you, hold onto her waist, and follow her rhythm. Don't just stand there. I loooove when my waist is held while dancing! Its very sexy, the man makes me feel secure and wanted. It adds to the vibe.
If giringing front to front, you have to give her support, so most likely you'll be placing you hand on her mid back as you to grind toward one another. This is a sexy lil' move to. But make sure you're not pumping grinding, NOT FUN from the front.
NO MATTER WHAT just make sure you're DANCING BACK! No girl likes to put in all the work, or a guy who can't follow her rhythm. Trust. When a guy can't follow a basic rhythm for a grind, I automatically assume he isnt good in bed becasue thats what its all about to me. That makes him less sexy to me, and I might want to stop dancing with him. But yeah.
GOOD LUCK!! KEEP DOING YOUR THING AND JUST SHOW THE LADIES AND MAKE HER FEEL SEXY AND WANTED. PLAIN N SIMPLE.
2007-01-19 00:02:26 · answer #1 · answered by Dance Diva 88 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be grinding if I were you, you might get a slap in the face. Unless she wants you to grind then I guess hold her hips, just follow her lead that way you wont do something you shouldn't. Good luck
2007-01-18 15:37:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girls likes guys to grind back!!!!!!
2007-01-18 17:38:25 · answer #3 · answered by krishna 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on the girl, if she's loose or not. If she's loose, of course she wants you to do other stuff with the rest of your appendages. If she's not, she probably wouldn't want to grind with you at all.
2007-01-18 15:34:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
take some lessons....as a woman i would rather a man know how to ballroom dance. It's so much more classy.
2007-01-18 15:35:04 · answer #5 · answered by nealejess401 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just "go for it" but for Pete's sake keep it in your pants!
2007-01-18 15:34:23 · answer #6 · answered by Realist 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hold hips, go with the music
2007-01-18 16:20:01 · answer #7 · answered by DE66 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i heard that grinding is a form of sexual contact w/o any insurtion... grinding is baddd
2007-01-18 15:35:16 · answer #8 · answered by Caribou 6 · 0⤊ 4⤋
are you sure all the girls are grinders?
2007-01-18 15:36:00 · answer #9 · answered by Foss 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be yourself.
2007-01-18 15:33:57 · answer #10 · answered by mared 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋