without using the internet.
2007-01-18 15:10:10 · 15 answers · asked by fear of the dark 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
ok, i meant without using "gaydar" also. cant always be positive thats accurate, dont exactly wanna hit on a straight person.
2007-01-18 15:40:50 · update #1
You know, the Internet has only been around for a decade or so, and since most of my friends, in my age group have been together for 3 or more decades it stands to reason that the Internet isn't how most people meet. College classes, jobs, mutual friends, restaurants, art galleries, bars, social organizations, political organizations, church, family members, and just simply the happen chance. The same way everyone meets.
2007-01-18 15:58:06 · answer #1 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1)Go to queer space (bars, clubs, organizations; spaces that are designated as "gay areas", or gay-friendly areas).
2)If you don't want to do that, and you're afraid to make the first tentative move, you have to just wait for him to. Someone has to take a risk. You can be fairly sure if you see that he's into you (eye contact etc; the stuff I lump into "gaydar").
NB: gaydar NEVER works when alcohol is involved in either party. For some reason, drunk looks an awful lot like gay.
2007-01-18 17:08:51 · answer #2 · answered by Atropis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine found me. She has been gay all of her adult life, me i am new at this. We were friends for quite awhile before she got up the nerve to ask me what I thought about the issue. I actually was growing very close to her. Thank goodness she got up the nerve. We have a very gentle, quiet relationship. We went to an event that had psychics , etc. Two of them told me, not knowing that we were together, that I had recently been reunited with my "Soul mate". We had been together in past lives as siblings, a traditional man/wife couple, and I liked this one I had been her boss! Anyway here is a different take on it!
2007-01-18 16:05:48 · answer #3 · answered by kar506 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
each so often, it truly is no longer plausible to appeal to close, yet, for instance, the fellow fascinated might want to ask them customary questions, for instance, what their perspectives on homosexuality are, and then per chance get extra particular. they could continually pop out to their pal in the journey that they do no longer understand, and in the journey that they are bi/gay too, then it truly is even as the fellow might want to likely tell them. obviously, for one evening stands, they likely bypass to a gay bar because maximum human beings there ARE gay, and in the journey that they don't seem to be that that they had be very difficulty-free for the reason that they are type of in the incorrect position, understand what I mean? yet yeah, some human beings it truly is puzzling to appeal to close. it truly is much harder if the question can make or spoil the friendship (which if the fellow isn't instantly and their pal did not agree, then what type of friendship is that besides?)
2016-11-25 19:37:54 · answer #4 · answered by schook 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With extreme difficulty
I personally have a policy that I DO NOT get involved with people with whom I work, or with clients. The result is that majority of people that I meet is out of bounds for me. I work excessive hours, and fly around quite a bit - so does that explain why I am alone for some time now.
2007-01-18 17:44:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can find partners anywhere. If you are referring to stereotypical gay meeting places, then bars, coffeehouses, community support groups, any of these will do. If you are in a spicy mood (some condone, some don't) go to a bathhouse.
Homosexuals can be met anywhere.
2007-01-18 15:33:11 · answer #6 · answered by The Gay Argentian Seal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are often gay 'hang outs' in most towns.. even small towns. In smaller towns they are known as beats, and will probably be toilet blocks and parks etc.
Larger towns will have gay bars and clubs. Your local community health centre may also have a gay social club or support group.
If not.. try asking about, most people know of some gay guys.
2007-01-18 16:34:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know - I was wondering the same thing today for some reason. But a friend who is gay can usually tell if another person is - never asked him how he knew. I should have.
2007-01-18 15:29:18 · answer #8 · answered by megan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do straight people find partners? There are GLBT venues where you meet ... like going to a straight bar, club, sporting event, swing club, whatever ....
2007-01-18 16:36:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to areas of town where the gay's hang out and try to meet new people.
2007-01-18 16:09:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋