he almost ******* kills her. he takes all her anger out on her. Would you get in the ******* fight. then your mom acts like she is stupid and stays with him and says she ******* loves him. He don't even love her.************* call 911. Boy I ************* hate them.I need drugs
this is for my friend
2007-01-18 14:51:29 · 16 answers · asked by Tyler K 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Tyler, your dad has beat up YOUR MOMS personality. She is NOT capable of leaving because he has victimized her so much.
You doing drugs wont help anything... it just numbs reality it does NOT solve anything. If you hurt yourself then the BAD GUY WINS...
Stay CALM and STRONG and TELL the most trusted person YOU know what is going on. Call crisis hotline in YOUR area and ASK for help. THEY will get your mom and you into a safe house.
DO THIS TYLER~ YOU are A GREAT GUY. DON"T let that "monster" wreck you.
2007-01-18 15:08:27 · answer #1 · answered by dbzgalaxy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to a nearest friends or neighbors house, and call 911. The police will take care of him and settle this conflict. This woman is staying with her husband because she is afraid of what he'll do to her.
2007-01-18 23:44:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take her to a shelter or women's center and leave her there. Whether she admits its or not, she's scared to death and unhappy. 99% chance she's also humiliated for you to know this. Drop her at the shelter with a bag, call the police and you yourself go stay with a relative you can trust or a friend.
I hate to make it your responsibility, but she's to far controlled to have sense about it. She needs rescuing TODAY! She can not be trusted to make rational adult decisions and someone needs to step up to the plate and do it for her. Talking to her will not help, BRING her there! Get help if you need to. Who cares so long as you safe her life? And your own. Or sorry, your friends.
DO NOT GET INVOLVED! If you open your mouth infront of him or jump in, he could very well kill her. Or turn on you, what good are you if you are broken.
I have worked with battered women. It is not about loving herself or you, she has no will of her own here. She needs rescuing, love and support to heal in all ways. So do you, or sorry, your friend.
If you don't know where to find a shelter, take her to the ER. They'll document her injuries (good for the police) and call in a social worker to help her and take the responsibility off you. MAKE THEM UNDERSTAND she did NOT "walk into a door".
If she goes back to him, leave yourself. As hard as it would be to leave your mother like that, it just might be the rock bottom she needs to hit to be brave enough to help herself.
2007-01-19 01:10:02 · answer #3 · answered by Noota Oolah 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
absolutely call the police and tell your mom you need her to love you more than she loves the abusive loser. tell her you need her to grow up so you can. find a number for a battered women's hotline and tell her you need her to call it right now and start getting help right now or you will call cps and get yourself put into foster care.
good luck. poor poor baby boy, stuck in such a nightmare. my heart breaks for him. don't give into drugs or you'll recreate their hell when you're an adult.
Here's what you do to survive: no matter what happens, you know you are better than the shitlife they've created and dumped you into. you have the will to live to your fullest, you will tend to your needs, get help from good grownups when you can, you will focus on your goals and get yourself there. you decide here and now you will never hit a girlfriend/wife/child.
you will have the motto of the al-anon group - don't kick, step over - as if they are just an obstacle in your path.
cut your mom a little slack, cause getting abused destroys a woman's will, but goshdarnit, she's supposed to love her child more than anything and give him a good environment.
2007-01-18 23:57:38 · answer #4 · answered by cassandra 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call the cops and get your mom in contact with one of those abused women groups.
They handle this kind of stuff all the time and know exactly what makes a women stay with a man after endless beatings. So they will know what to say to her to help her see the light.
Tell your friend to hang in there and not physically get involved - it's not his fault and it's not fair that he has to see this happening.
But there is something that can be done, make it very difficult for them to continue with this behavior by getting the community involved. Starting with the cops and then the abused womens group.
2007-01-18 23:00:17 · answer #5 · answered by fizzents 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My dad hit my ma when they together.and i always felt so fuc_king horrible, lousy and stupid because i could do nothing but cry.I always wanted to help but i was scared and i couldn't make my body move and I felt so damn stupid like it was all my fault. Don't let your friend do what I did. After the fight is over call the police.Don't jump in the fight he could be the one to get seriously hurt.
2007-01-19 10:11:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
At noon, a man told to his wife: "I'm going to the bar to take some wines," And she answered; "Wait; hit me now. so you don't awake me when you get back."
There are some women (sick) that have no self-esteem, and fear to death, to remain alone. Also there's an illness called masochism.
Both, your mother and father are very sick, and they are hurting you hard.
Forget about drugs. Be brave and face your problem. Leave as
soon as possible, and build for yourself a nice life to be leaved.
2007-01-22 22:10:53 · answer #7 · answered by robertonereo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
call the police next time it happens or get pictures of it. Do you have a camcorder or camera phone? record it. OR move out and go to a family or friends house
2007-01-19 04:45:39 · answer #8 · answered by I hate stupid ppl like you 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get off the drugs and call 911 and press charges of visual child abuse against him if she won't press charges as well as calling social services.
2007-01-18 22:59:40 · answer #9 · answered by tiffany k 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
CALL 911
2007-01-20 14:37:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋