I want to clear my mind before my baby comes in 6weeks what can I do? I am 16 and don't have money to do much!

Answer 1

Get plenty of rest! Start meditating, reading, just mellowing out. Have a friend come over and give you a pedicure. I know you are anxious, but try not to stay busy busy right now....take time for yourself. Once that baby gets here, you won't have much time like you do now! trust me!

Answer 2

Well, with that much on your mind, I'm not sure you can escape completely, but go see a movie. Preferrably a matinee on a weekday. I can assure you that after the baby arrives, you won't be seeing a whole lot of first-run films!

It's great to go to the movie theater when everyone else is working or at school - it's like having your own personal theater. If you have a couple extra bucks, buy some popcorn and a soda, or some other treat. It'll really help give you a lift to lose yourself in the plot.

Congrats and good luck!

Answer 3

Normally your nesting instincts should be kicking in, but it sounds like you already feel that stress and recognize the need to clear your mind for awhile. Do everything you can to relax. Having a friend give you a pedicure, and going for a swim if you can are both great ideas, but I'd refrain from the latter because of any possibility of infection.

So, right after the pedicure and I'd have someone brush your hair too-that's always relaxing, get out the candles, grab a good book and settle into a nice bath, and admire your purrty pedicured tootsies. Go out to breakfast, lunch or dinner, and sleep a whole bunch if you can. Shop for yourself, it doesn't have to be expensive-buy that book, or get over to the dollar store-find a nice pajama, or even a brand new pillow. Relish in the freedom that you have now, 6 weeks comes soon, and there never be another day like it....CONGRATULATIONS!

Answer 4

go swimming . that i think is most likely the most similar feeling that we can have to being in the womb.
when your swimming just think your floating around with almost no effort and your baby has been doing that inside you.
so for only 6 more weeks you and the baby in you can feel almost the same fun wild ride.
and swimming is just plain fun .
oh and as for being pregnant in a swim suit . no woman can not look great when there pregnant . in a swim suit even better.
and i think you will find i am well in the majority on that one.
i pray you and your new blessing have a wonderful life together
i am sure you will too .

i read what the people write you and wow you would think you are the only woman who had a baby at 16. one of the most successful women i know did just what you did . she is a RN
now married and happy. the child is grown and is great.
remember . your not the first your not the last .
and remember this
God will give no one more then he/she can bear. God gave you this child you might think oh this is a mistake that is nonsense
your not a mistake nor is the baby .
i can feel in my bones that you will do fantastic as a mom
as a person and that you need not have a single worry now
or 5 years from now . you will be the best mommy just wait and ask the child .
and go for a swim .
take some pics of yourself
watch a funny movie
put on headphones and sing
smile
really i can feel how great you are now and will be .

Answer 5

Awww. It takes a very special person at such a young age to be willing to share so much with someone so tiny! I got pregnant when I was 17 and was in an abusive relationship;I was broke as a joke, and my ex wanted me to have an abortion, but I knew I could take care of what God had given me. You are very lucky to get such a special gift! Sure, there are lots of women who just have kids for whatever reason, but the really special, beautiful women are the ones who love thier babies and take care of them! If you want to clear your mind, try what I did - there were some nights that I couldn't sleep and would actually wait for the sun to come up. I went on daybreak walks down to the nieghborhood park to feed the ducks, I read alot of insightful books, and took warm baths. (Not too hot!) I talked with my mom and the few BEST friends that I had. Listening to your favorite music is really good, and there's nothing better than seeing yourself dance with that belly! Have fun, and God bless you and keep you and your precious baby!

Answer 6

You don't say what your plan is - to keep your baby or place it for adoption. (?) Either way, just relax, get as much rest as you can and try not to let stress and worry get to you. Stay away from negative people and practice relaxation and breathing exercises. Listen to relaxing music, walk on the beach if you live near one, or visit a park for some air. Cruise the mall. Check out new books at the library or the bargain bin at the bookstore. Treat yourself to a pedicure so your feet are pretty (even if they are swollen...lol). Check to see if you have a beauty college nearby, they usually have discounted prices on manicures and pedicures. (Remember to leave either your toes or your fingernails with clear polish only - sometimes doctors use this to monitor your circulation, etc., plus short, clean, natural nails will make it easier to care for your newborn without scratching his/her delicate skin.)

Just treat yourself and your precious cargo like gold for the next few weeks... eat light healthy meals, rest lots (while you can), and keep a positive outlook. Don't be afraid and don't listen to horror stories from drama queen my-delivery-was-the-worst-ever divas. It's just not that bad, I promise.

PS: Don't pay any attention to the negative nay-sayers - no one has the right to look down their nose at you because of your age. I had my first child when I was just 17 and he will graduate (early and with honors) valedictorian this June with his choice of colleges and a plethora of scholarships. It wasn't easy, but it wasn't tragic, either... age does not make you a better parent. Whatever your choice, dear, make it with pride and treat yourself well. Sending you happy thoughts & best wishes for a beautiful future!!!

One last thought: Try this website for a great parenting approach... wish I had found it right away as opposed to when my boys were 3 and 5!!! http://www.loveandlogic.com/ If it looks like something you are interested in, check your library, churches local social services department and schools to see if they have tapes/cd/dvd's to loan. If you can't find any, email me, I think I have some older tapes around here. (Helicopters, Drill Instructors and Consultants is awesome and funny to listen to.)

Answer 7

maximum women folk are literally not really fertile after beginning, fairly in case you're breastfeeding. it truly is a fantasy. Shoot, i did not become fertile back till 9-10 months after beginning ( through breastfeeding). besides the undeniable fact that, it truly is quite often through an infection. they don't opt for you to get an infection so allow you to recognize to stay away from sex. it truly is a education and in no way a trademark of even as each lady is waiting. some are waiting previously and some are not waiting for a lengthy time period after. My midwife provides me the guidelines that as long as my lochia has stopped or slowed down and that i think waiting then it would want to properly be nice. My cousin had sex after 2 weeks. I waited 5 weeks with my son, no longer positive how lengthy iw unwell watch for this one

Answer 8

You could always ask a boyfriend/girlfriend/family member to give you a deep tissue massage (without you laying down, of course). It might relax your nerves. Maybe drink some *noncaffeinated* tea and read a book on pregnancy that you havent (What To Expect When Your Expecting or What To Expect: The First Year are good choices). Most of all just breathe and dont stress! Pre-term isnt good.

Answer 9

i don't think theres too much you can do right before the baby comes! you will be thinking about it constantly. it's impossible not to be excited, nervous or anxious, especially at 16! i agree with trying out a good book or two. that can take you to another place for at least a while. you can also go out with friends, go to the movies, take a nap... anything you won't be able to do nearly as often once you have a little baby!

and congratulations! having a baby is such a blessing, at any age.

Answer 10

Yoga.
Or, a class in mindfulness meditation.
Check around for prices, try the YMCA. Some places may offer special deals.
You may be able to just take 1 or 2 classes and practice some simple things at home.