2007-01-18 14:13:06 · 6 answers · asked by Jay boogie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You need to talk to her and remind her about the child.
Good Luck
2007-01-18 14:16:43 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure how old your girl is, but it is her body and she does have the right to choose, however I am totally against abortion or anything of the like. My advice would be for you both to go to counseling at your local planned parenthood office and if after you go you still have not make a mutual decision then I think you both should do some research on what would the pros and cons of having the baby versus not having it.
From my experience I found that I made the best decision and my baby is the reason I live for, but after going trough what I've gone through sometimes I wonder what my life would have been like had I decided against having her. I will never regret having her, but she does affects every decision I make in my life.....So just don't let the sudden shock overwhelm you...
Try to put yourself in her place and feel her fear and confusion.... and then you may be able to agree with whatever decision she makes...
2007-01-18 22:27:44 · answer #2 · answered by DEE 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is she going things that could actually harm the baby?
If so try sitting down with her and talking about if she wants this baby then at least do the minimum of right things so it's born healthy.
if she continues to indanger it's life and you really want to be a part of it's future then turn it over to social services so they can try to prevent any further harm.
2007-01-18 22:19:53 · answer #3 · answered by gypse76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boy shes carrying YOUR baby for the next 9 months. u better get over urself cause u think its bad now? wait till her back starts hurting, and her feet start swelling. she can do whatever she damn well pleases. also forgot to mention the severe pain and agony of pushing out a watermelon through a hole big enough for a small lemon to fit through.
2007-01-18 22:20:10 · answer #4 · answered by shadowpaws2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not get pregnant if i am A: not married and B: apparently not mature enough to raise children. Call her mom. Pray, and try to talk some sense into her.
2007-01-18 22:20:54 · answer #5 · answered by Cayla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if I was in your situation, with seemingly bad grammar as well as punctuation, I would most likely have a low I.Q, given that, and the fact that I'm referring to my other half as "my girl" I would say that I'm some dumb*ss **** head who got my girlfriend pregnant, who should drag her *** to get an abortion.
2007-01-18 22:17:47 · answer #6 · answered by Aria 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋