im really frustrated with people at the moment...it just seems like social awkwardness overruns my generation...anyway im a pretty strong kid im always sure of myself...how should i approach meeting some new people....to be honest im just bored...how do i meet interesting people
2007-01-18 14:10:21 · 9 answers · asked by g_rant07 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
its not shyness...it really isnt...im just so pissed at everyone...
2007-01-18 14:17:48 · update #1
Everyone around has somthing interesting about them . i think the proper question would be, what can i do to find out interesting things about the people around me? or how can i get people to open up to me. A wise book says, To acquire friends, you must first show yourself friendly. be friendly, and you meet plenty of people.
2007-01-18 14:19:30 · answer #1 · answered by beautyzhername 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should go somewhere where you think interesting people go. Ask yourself what is your definition of an interesting person, because everybody is different. When making friends you should keep an open mind, and don't launch into friendships too fast becaus people often aren't as they seem on first impressions. On that note, you should never judge on first impressions. The most interesting people are often the shyest, and once you get over the social awkwardness you will probably find that the awkwardness will go away, giving way to an interesting relationship.
2007-01-18 22:22:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Visit any Kingdom Hall when cars are in the parking lot. You'll meet lots of interesting folk there who can answer any Bible based questions you might have. The talks given are full of useful information that will probably surprise you. Find out what else you can expect to find on such a visit, at ...
Jehovah's Witnesses: Worship & Conventions*
- Where and How We Worship
http://www.jw-media.org/people/worship.htm
Jehovah's Witnesses---The People :
- Who Are Jehovah's Witnesses?
- Worship & Conventions*
- Ministry to the Public
- Contributions to the Community
- Statistics
http://www.jw-media.org/people/index.htm
How to Make Real Friends :
- We All Need Friends
- Satisfying Our Hunger for Friendship
- Good Friends--Bad Friends
http://watchtower.org/e/20041208/article_01.htm
2007-01-18 22:21:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make a lest of the things that interest you and the traits in people you admire. Stick it on the merrier so it's in your mind every morning. You will soon recognize these interests and traits in the people that possess them. Discuss the interests you have in common. It's easy to talk to someone who's like minded. Ask honest questions and be your self. People are usually happy to accommodate. It's a compliment to them that you consider there opinion worthy of consideration. Good luck and I hope this is helpful.
2007-01-18 23:18:42 · answer #4 · answered by grstroup2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do something your interested in... Classes like cooking or art are always good, you will make new and interesting friends, that way, or you can be like me and just go chat to the next old lady you see waiting for a bus, they always are happy to be talked to
2007-01-18 22:18:07 · answer #5 · answered by TC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, alot of people are akward, so shoot em'. just because a person is akward it doesn't mean they are uniteresting, maybe you confidence is intimidating. if you want to get to know people, make them feel comfortable enough to be themselves around you. you'd be suprised how much seemingly akward people have to offer if you get to know them.
2007-01-18 22:18:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lessen the shyness u urself... u would never know if u dont even try...
2007-01-18 22:16:12 · answer #7 · answered by DeathNote 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need an attitude adjustment.
2007-01-18 22:20:14 · answer #8 · answered by robert m 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You walk up to someone and say hi my name is....
2007-01-22 18:16:28 · answer #9 · answered by pnn177 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋