Why do women have to be so petty or jealous?

Question

I'm not gorgeous. I'm going to start out by pointing out that i don't think that i'm beautiful or great or anything. But women are almost always rude to me, they look at me and instantly give me attitude when i haven't done anything but be friendly. There are so women that take one look at me and instantly don't like me. What is with people like this? Don't they know that i have feelings too?...

This has been irritating me lately, it's getting to where whenever i know i have to meet a woman, i instantly dread it. Of course there are exceptions, sometimes there are very non-jealous women, but there are a ton of jealous/petty females out there!

Answer 1

Just listen to your question title;
Why do women have to be so petty or jealous? (negative energy behind those negative words)
and the words that immediately follow this,
"I'm not gorgeous, not beautiful, not great, not anything."

"How can any one ever like you if you don't even like you?"

My observation, start by honoring and loving yourself first and foremost.

If good vibes from women or from any one is what you seek, then you must make a shift within yourself. Give out what you want to receive back (recycle only what you want to come back to you). If you are doing this, changing your approach for the positive, and it is not working for you, then work towards truly "Believing" in the good vibes behind your intentions and words.

You never escape energy, no one does. It always catches up eventually. So, only give out what you want to receive back. If this is what you are receiving from others, then you need to look back and see what you've been saying or doing. Even if it is about the way you feel or think about yourself.

This question you asked (petty jealous women who don't like you), is just recycling back to yourself what you are working towards getting away from. It's re-enforcing the words you say. You must speak positively about yourself, other woman or about anyone to receive positive energy back to yourself.

And, words create. When you put energy behind words like "there are a ton of jealous/petty females out there", and add belief behind your words... wallah, look at the world around you, that "you" are creating for yourself.

Think of life as a movie script. You are the writer, director, producer and actor/actress. You get to choose who you will be, and who will star in your wonderful movie of life with you. If you ever don't like a part or person in your movie re-write it til' "you" get it right.

Re-think your words, the way you feel about yourself and the world around you, that you are creating for yourself... now, re-write it to match the energy you'd like to receive back to yourself.

Answer 2

women folk have what's referred to as a 'clear out mechinisem' which makes you subconciously sparkling out the weak/undisired men. yet, human women folk are a similar as lady Goldfish... No Im no longer attempting to be mean ;) Im severe. If there are 2 male goldfish that seem the very similar and the only lady goldfish doesn't understand which one to settle on, so it truly is going to bypass for the only which one and all the different lady goldfish are going after because he's disired, this works a similar for women folk. So in case you seem extra useful then them or they have self positive topics then they're going to become jealous because you receives extra men. so that they steer themselves faraway from you because in the journey that they are round you, they men will in reality pay interest to you and in no way your pal. (because men do a similar right ingredient) so in otherwords, you need to be extra eye-catching of have some thing they don't ;)

Answer 3

because EVE ate that damn fruit that's why women are catty , competitive and evil etc.

Answer 4

You are better off being friends with men that women. My daughter says the same thing.

Answer 5

I agree 100% with you on this. That's why I don't like very many women, they're stupid.

(an hour later) Ahhh! I see I've received some thumbs down. Sorry uglies, you've never experienced this.

Answer 6

I have encountered a few women that act like that, but for the most part we women are not like that. Since you think the majority of women are like that... perhaps you are putting off some bad vibes that these women are sensing and not liking. Try to take a fresh approach with each individual woman you meet.

Answer 7

People just don't throw off funky attitudes for no reason. If you're pleasant, you will get that in return. If you walk with your nose in the air, or a mindset that you're better than anyone, or you dress or talk to people a certain way ~ you can give off bad vibes. If you walk around expecting someone to be negative, you will get it.

"If everyone else is the problem, then maybe it's really you with the problem"
- me

*And those women who are often friends with men instead of women, just have a problem with women themselves. They don't know how to interact with other women ~ and it's usually from their own insecurities*

Answer 8

i dont know but ive often wondered. i wonder if its our societys high standards of beauty that make us behave like that. maybe society has created beauty everywhere (which implying it equals power) that women who dont have it feel like they are powerless. or maybe someone has messed with their heads, causing them to doubt themselves, and question everything making them react a certain way. its sad. we as women dont realize out power, but instead we drain others of theirs.

Answer 9

same with me!! I know I may intimidate some women but that is no reason to treat me like a second class citizen..(as you can see I don't have much female friends)...god I can go on forever with this...but you know what some of them are very insecure & they take their insecurities on females like us remember it's not you it's them!!!