2007-01-18 14:05:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
you see the real reason is that many many men are taught that sex and being comfortable with your self is perfectly acceptable while many women are taught that sex is bad and self exploration is dirty and we should save ourselves for our husbands. that is why i have trouble. I mean i was always taught to be comfortable with myself but i grew up in an area where self exploration was not acceptable and i did that kind of thing in private as all people should but i have a hard time having an orgasm in front of someone. i can't relax. it's a mental barrier it takes me a very long time to break through. me an my bf have been sleeping together for about 3 months and he is not my first at all and i have no complaints about his sexual skills. but not once has he brought me to orgasm. relax and don't push it. it will happen.
oh and self exploration is okay in fact i recommend it. if you know your body than you can tell your partner things not even the most skilled lover would ever know.
2007-01-18 15:04:09 · answer #1 · answered by 1 Hott Mami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because men are pigs and just want to get off where the ladies want more. Some women it is way more difficult to climax than other women. Known some women that cant climax during intercourse unless you touch there clit at the same time or even a vibrator at the same time. Also have seen women that can climax easier doing anal than vaginal. Every man and woman are diff. And that's good!
2007-01-18 14:14:16 · answer #2 · answered by chris b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This of course varies with the individual but women are
more emotionally based and men more physically based.
Women need to feel love and trust before they let go of
inhibitions while men, though they also might feel these
things are more intent on the physical release. It takes
time for these diversities to converge.
2007-01-18 14:14:14 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never noticed this.
Women who know their bodies, with partners who ask them how they want to be loved, and who love them as they are asked to, have NO problem achieving orgasm, many times over, before their partner does, unless they have medical or psychological concerns that prevent same.
2007-01-18 14:11:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BECAUSE MEN HAVE ALL THE LUCK
2007-01-18 14:09:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because we think too much
2007-01-18 14:50:10 · answer #6 · answered by oamnagr 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋