Is this just some silly game that some men play?
2007-01-18 13:59:23 · 10 answers · asked by classielassie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sometimes us men like to know that we're still attractive to other ladies besides our wives. It's not a game. Just stroking the ego. Honestly, give him a light smack in the head, pinch his butt, laugh about the whole thing with him, then tell him how gooffy he looked. And don't forget to tell him he's all that in your eyes still. But don't get pissy unless it's totally outta hand.
2007-01-18 14:10:15 · answer #1 · answered by Paul R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Most of the time it is because they like the feeling of having someone flirt back with them. Us men like it when we get alittle attention from the opposite sex. However, what ever the reason, if a man is married, he should learn to overcome that desire to flirt. It dishonors his wife, even if it is innocent and he would never take it any farther than flirting. Sometimes, we like it when women flirt with us, because we want our wives to know what a catch we are. You should let him know how it makes you feel when he flirts, and that it is not acceptable behavior. Don't let him give you this, "that's just the way I am" bull, or "its just innocent flirting, nothing will come of it". Ask him how he would feel if you were to flirt with other men. If he says "go ahead, it won't bother me", than he has no respect for you and something is wrong. Hope this helps.
2007-01-18 14:17:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think men (and women) flirt for a lot of different reasons, some do it to still feel attractive, some do it in hopes someone will take them up on it, I myself, when I flirt its usually with a lady that i know could use a little boost of self confidence (wife is always aware and she thinks its cute when I flirt with the overweight lady a few doors down). My wife usually flirts with an old guy in the checkout line, she can usually get a smile out of em and I think it kinda makes their day.
2007-01-18 14:06:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In most of the stable happy marriages I'm familiar with the wives point out the "pretty bodies" and laugh themselves silly at their husband's reactions. Mine can flirt all he wants because it's ME he's taking home. I don't worry about him finding anyone else and never did. He can flirt all he wants. It's fun and innocent. We've been married nearly 38 years.
2007-01-18 14:07:50 · answer #4 · answered by janisko 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
people flirt. Usually its in there personality. Not just guy there are some woman I have noticed that they do it too.
So is it a game. I don't think its a game. I think most people who do this usually are not comfortable with themselves so they hide be hind being a flirt, trying to chase things that they can have to prove they are someone when they are really not.
2007-01-18 14:12:17 · answer #5 · answered by xxgq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes sometimes it is a game and this is just not right.... If my husband did that i would be very unhappy about it and would not like it at all.... Some men are just selfish pigs and dont think about others feelings and only of their own. If you are with this kind of guy i feel bad for you.
2007-01-18 14:03:32 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Men flirt because all they are attracted to the chick in some way, sorry.
2007-01-18 14:08:57 · answer #7 · answered by sleepyhead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever the reason, they are just plain disrespectful. If a man flirts with me and he is with his wife I say things loudly like, That poor woman what an asshole she is married to. To shoot him down and make her feel good. Those kind of men disgust me.
2007-01-18 14:06:30 · answer #8 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, somehusbands flirt cause they want to see what they can land. Maybe they can land something better.
2007-01-18 14:03:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most men they can't help them self.
2007-01-18 14:04:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋