I have a HUGE crush on this boy but my best friend is his girlfriend!
But we always play and laugh together i don't know what to do?
2007-01-18 13:36:38 · 27 answers · asked by 143 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i had the same problem. first off, dont tell your best friend your feelings or her boyfriend. trust me, it isnt the best thing to do. second, if this guy likes you, than he will dump his current girlfriend and go out with you! in the mean time, try to aviod liking him. check out other guys to help you reduce your HUGE crush.
hope this helps yah a little bit. =]
2007-01-18 13:45:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all answer the question: is your chush on him more important than their relationship?
Well, how dramatically old-stylish it will sound... you have to choose. To go for a guy and hope he'll be with you (don't forget that he may have much more feelings to your best friend than you,thus you may lose them both) or try to forget it and leave it all like it is now.
Second one is more real and safe than first one cos' who knows... maybe everything will change without losing best friend. They'll leave each other soon. Or not. Maybe they'll get married and live happily with couple of kids and a dog in a cottage and you'll be biting your elbows your whole life...
I don't think it will be that bad actually. And I'm sure you'll figure it out! Drop me a line when you will. ;)
2007-01-18 21:56:24 · answer #2 · answered by alexus_mad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is the worst thing to do to a friend,get your on boyfriend and leave him alone, slow down on the playing too, if shes really your best friend you will do what is right.start looking for a guy that has no girl friend how would you feel if you get a boy friend and she plays and laughs with yours all the time.she may see more than you think! and could be worried ' be a real friend and start paying attention to her instead of him.
2007-01-18 21:54:20 · answer #3 · answered by deedee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's you friends' . So stay away from him. Firends are worth more than guys and trust me, you'll find someone better.
If seen him is painful just stay away from your friend for a while or son't hang out with those two along. Just grab another friend to make a foursome. Whatever, just...be a friend
2007-01-18 21:44:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if yopu try to get them to break up and then go out with the guy then kiss your best friends a$$ goodbye cause you'll be ripping her heart out so i'd say get over it and find someone else... the only reason you have a crush on him casue your near him alot.... so stay away from him... and find someone else...stay away not meaning ignoring just not as close ad you are now... but its just a crush... so get over it lol
2007-01-18 21:40:41 · answer #5 · answered by phvxoui 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been in that position before.if she is really your best friend,you could have a crush on him but you should not interfere with their relationship.that could hurt your BEST friend and then you will probably face some consequences.if you both have a great time together,make him your other best friend.
2007-01-18 21:54:20 · answer #6 · answered by softballchic02 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must not try to get this guy to like you. You may have feelings of jealousy because your best friend has a boyfriend. Look elsewhere.
2007-01-18 21:39:54 · answer #7 · answered by nancymomkids 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore your heart for a minute...if you try and look for someone else you'll be able to forget about it.
No boy is worth losing your bedt friend over, and trust me - no matter what she says, it will never be alright if you go for him.
2007-01-18 21:40:34 · answer #8 · answered by Jax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act like a friend. Your best friend's boyfriend is SO off limits.
2007-01-18 21:39:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing happened to me...just try and get over him. you should try and promote your best friends happiness because thats what friends are for. It took me two and a half months to get over him so its not easy. but good luck and in the end you need to decide whats best for you.
2007-01-18 21:44:29 · answer #10 · answered by XxXGiRLNeXtDooRXxX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋