I've never really questioned my sexuality before, just always assumed i was meant to be with men. but then i found a truly beautiful woman, we kissed and more and i enjoyed it, her kisses felt more real and more fantsatic then the males i had been with, i wanted more and more of her, i still remember the way her kisses feel and taste. I began to realise that i fell in love with her, i had never ever felt so deeply about anyone, i never really had experienced love but now i have, that is about the only thing i'm certain of. i read somewhere that if you fall in love it defines your sexuality so now i am curious what am i? i've noticed that it isn't inly this girl that i am interested in, what i used to pass off as simply admiring certain female appearance, in that kind of way when they walk past you can say she's hot without actually wanting to be with her, now i'm not so sure that's what i'm doing, now i'm beginning to think there is more to it. so which am i? apart from confused lol
2007-01-18 13:18:29 · 9 answers · asked by colonel 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i'm female.
2007-01-18 13:25:57 · update #1
Try not to label yourself, leave that to others. Just love who you love. It doesn't matter what gender a person is. Love is a very special thing and don't close yourself off to it. Don't be scared. Just be you!
2007-01-18 13:25:23 · answer #1 · answered by Lorien 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happened to me. I am in my 1st female relationship now and it's been almost a year. If you are still attracted to men,then you are prob bi. I am still attracted to men,but more so to women. I think it's because I find women to be wired just like me. We love attention,are sensitive,feel the same way about stuff and just over all more affectionate. To me it's like the men I have been with,only cared about what they wanted and we just looked at things in two totally diffrent ways. I have much more in common with a beautiful woman. No offence to the guys. I know their are good ones too.
2007-01-18 14:42:05 · answer #2 · answered by sexygal8321 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By looking at what u wrote u seems to be confuse about ur sexuality.. to tell u the truth if u really fall in love with someone from the same.. then dun bother about ur sexuality.. just be urself.. it is better than trying to figure out what u really are
2007-01-18 14:51:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i guess shes just one of those people that you "would go gay for" but it doesn't mean you're lesbian. i don't think you are, and if anything you could be bi IF you would consider like having a relationship with a girl. whats holding you back is something you'll have to find out on your own. hope this helps ;)
2016-05-24 05:23:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say there's a good possibility that you're either lesbian or bisexual. But with just one experience, you can't be totally sure.
Are you still sexually attracted to males? Do you find yourself wanting to sexually be with women? And also to have a relationship with one? Just some questions to think about.
2007-01-18 13:59:38 · answer #5 · answered by Yalena 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're still interested in men, I'd say you're bisexual. The fact that you went that far with a woman and wanted more tells me that you're more than just curious.
2007-01-18 14:12:20 · answer #6 · answered by carora13 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you're bisexual, but only you can know for sure. Time and experience will tell.
2007-01-18 13:27:16 · answer #7 · answered by Rat 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just love the individual not the gender - you love who you love the rest is just anatomy
2007-01-19 22:47:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jesus is winning you over, keep fighting my son!
No, honestly a beautiful gilr can do wonders. Does she make you hard?
2007-01-18 13:23:53 · answer #9 · answered by inner peace 1 · 0⤊ 6⤋