i am 5ft and weight about 120, i think i am over weight for my height. Do you think i should lose 5lb so that my husband won't think of cheating. Does man cheat on their spouse b/c she is fat. Should i lose weight or not? I am confuse!!!
2007-01-18 13:17:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
first, yes, u should lose weight; know what is the desired weight for that kind of height and go for it whatever happened. second, buy nice clothes that fits ur personality, third, be in touch with society so there is sometjhing to talk about when u guys are alone, fourth, make the home a comfortable place for him. where good food, clean rooms, clean towels, clothes, etc etc are a norm. its hard being a wife. u will have to go out, be tough as a career woman and also a lovely wife. whew.. but what can i say.. we have to keep up with the competition.
2007-01-18 13:45:55 · answer #1 · answered by The Punisher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends on the situation and the couple really. I mean my husband knows Im on here, and I know he gets online and has girls that talk to him he works in retail so its hard not to have girls be around him and talk to him. I think if a man loves his wife he should trust her until she does something to break that trust and the same way around, a woman should trust her husband until he does something to break that trust. I knew a girl whos husband cheated on her for three years and she thought something was up but didnt really know. He had the girl he was cheating with become really close friends with his wife. He would go on trips that were originally three or four days and he would say its a week and spend time with the other girl then she would tell him to buy a gift for his wife. The other girl was married, then when she cheated her husband divorced her and so now this guy is taking care of her and her three daughters. I moved away from them so I don't know what happened with them but his wife just had a baby and the other girl was pregnant before we left so I don't know what happened after that. Now he has six little girls, beautiful and hes running around with another girl. His wife is so pretty, and a lot prettier than the other girl but her attitude is so horrible. I dont know how they could cheat and hurt the other persons heart.
2016-05-24 05:23:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you are not overweight.Second ,men don't cheat because their spouses are overweight.Why men or women cheat on their spouses has to do with their situation at home.So many reasons,too little time.It's not the right thing to do but men and women both stray.Don't feel confused just try to keep your communication lines open because that's the most important priority in a marriage.
2007-01-18 13:34:38 · answer #3 · answered by Ms Lety 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that 5 pounds will make your man cheat. I think they cheat because they are unhappy in their relationship, one way or another. Unless your man is totally hung up on looks, then the 5 lbs you think you need to lose shouldn't matter.
2007-01-18 13:23:03 · answer #4 · answered by melody g 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You could be the most beautiful woman in the world, & a man could still cheat.
You need to be sure you married a good guy who has morals versus a bad guy who does not have morals.
2007-01-18 13:27:24 · answer #5 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel you need to lose weight then do so but only for yourself and not for anyone else.... Men that cheat are selfish and it does not matter what you weigh....
2007-01-18 13:25:49 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when a man wants to cheat on his wife there are always several reasons being fat is one but i dont think your fat 120 is a nice size but if he really loves you he'll love u nomatter how u are
2007-01-18 13:29:31 · answer #7 · answered by creamy1984 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your husband is going to cheat , it doesnt matter if you lose 5lbs or 15lbs.
I belive people cheat because they aren't at peace with themselves...
2007-01-18 13:41:40 · answer #8 · answered by hazzy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
believe me, it DOES NOT matter what you look like. Look at christie brinkley. her husband was just a lying cheating piece of crap.
2007-01-18 13:30:45 · answer #9 · answered by Jay Jay 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he loves u he's not gonna cheat...most guys who cheat are pieces of **** before they got married anyway...same goes for girls...u make it sound like if he does cheat its ur fault and its not.
2007-01-18 13:22:40 · answer #10 · answered by mr_fury666 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋