Okay...I'm like in this really crappy school and like 3 or 4 months ago, i had moved frm germany where like ALL my friends are. Aight, I only got like 4 more months in school cuz i'm a senior. Anyways, I only kno like 20 or 30 ppl in the school i'm in now, but i only remember like 8 ppl's names! (yes i kno, pathetic, but there's 1700 kids in the damn school and in my last school there was like 200 kids...can ya blame me????) anyway, the ppl i DO happen to remember the names of, for some reason i'm gettin a lil close to them. And one of them, i'm startin to have a few feelings for him (ya get my drift?)
ok I kno that the answer may be a lil obvious...but where do you think I should graduate at? Here..in this crappy-@ss school where i'm really startin to like someone here...or in my last school in germany where most of my friends are...which by the way the school was also a lil crappy?
And for those who are wondering...yes, it is possible for me to go bac to germany.
2007-01-18 13:13:19 · 19 answers · asked by Kimmie 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Well for one thing not all school in America are large, there are some just as small as the one you came from, and it is OK that you don't know the names of every person you meet. Most people in a large school only have a few close friends at the most. That is OK to. I had that problem when I moved from a small town to a big city. I did not realize that It was not necessary to know every single person, but really it is impossible to know every single person.
As for as which school you should graduate from, I think that would be up to you personally. I am the sentimental type and would think the school that I had come from would be the wise choice to graduate from, but that is me, you just have to weigh the benefits of both and come up with your on conclussion.
2007-01-18 14:34:36 · answer #1 · answered by trhwsh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Humm, sounds like you are not sure where your roots are. I would recommend staying where you are at.. After school only a few will remain friends anyway. And although you left "Friends" behind in Germany, if they are true friends you will keep in touch. By the way, life works the same way. You may have many friends in the area you are at and everything seems fine, then you move and never hear from anyone... guess what!! They were not true friends... So I would say.... stay put!!! And enjoy the one you are with... Good Luck!!
2007-01-18 21:21:44 · answer #2 · answered by Snake_Man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are liking the people you do know why not stay and graduate at the school you are in currently. After all school will be over soon so it really does not matter how crappy it is and and how many people you know. When and if you start college you will have to start meeting new people again. Then when you start working you meet new people yet again. That's the cycle of life. Make the best of it.
2007-01-18 21:20:07 · answer #3 · answered by starfire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, from an adult point of view, it really doesn't matter from which school you graduate. Life begins after high school. The question is: What do you want to do with your life, and are you better able to reach it where you are, or in Germany?
As far as school, which group are you more likely to be friends with in 10 years?
2007-01-18 21:19:10 · answer #4 · answered by Jamie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this guy forever? Is he the 1? If you need more time to answer that question than you should stay. If the answer is a straight up no then go back home. Just remember, home is never as good as you remember. All your friends moved on with their lives, it's not going to be the same when you get back there anywayz.
2007-01-18 21:18:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to give your self a chance. I am from mexico. like you said tere were like 200 plp on my school Iam a sinior to. Well wen i fist came i was confuse because the people didn't speack no inglish. I fellt like i was from another planet. I khow like 100 plp but i only now half of thoso plp names.I now how you fell it is a very difficult time but if you have hope you can get use to the us.
Keep up you can doit.
2007-01-18 21:29:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what the school's crappy?! You're wonderful and you're graduating, yippee! Grad from where you are.
You used "like" 5 times in 3 sentences, don't do that at job interviews unless you want to sabotage them.
2007-01-18 21:19:25 · answer #7 · answered by Zeera 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should finish at the school you are in now. you can see if anything happens between you and this guy, and even if it doesnt, you can still meet a lot of people and make a lot of friends. then, you will still have all your friends in Germany and all your new friends from where ever you are now. You're goin international baby! : ] hope i helped! best wishes!
2007-01-18 21:20:49 · answer #8 · answered by rubywhite13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, i used to live in germany too and it was hard to move. I was there because my dad was in air force.Ok, does the guy like you back. if he doesn't then you r wasting your time. If you want to graduate with him, if he likes you back, or would you want to graduate with you friends so you don't waste your time waitin for some guy who doesn't like you. Just try to find out what he thinks of you.
2007-01-18 21:19:15 · answer #9 · answered by Heather W. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my school theres like 2500 kids n it doesnt really matter where u graduate juss make sure u keep the good friends n leave the bad ones some of them will juss hurt u in the future trust me
2007-01-20 17:12:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋