i had sex about 14 days ago. we used condoms but also used the pull out method once. i was scared so i took the morning after pill the next day. my period was due 4 days ago and it hasnt come. please help me. can i make my period come earlier. or can i somehow have an abortion without any one finding out?
2007-01-18 13:07:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
you are just freaked out. it only has a 10% failure rate (the pill) and its only been two weeks. if you pregnant, your pregnant, and you have 9 more months to deal with it, but more likely then not, stress has made it late. if after a month after sex, you have not had your period, take the pee test and see the doctor. i myself have been late more than once, and i have never been pregnant.
2007-01-18 13:21:59 · answer #1 · answered by Jen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your most likely not pregnant but get a pregnancy test to find out for sure. People can have abortions without anyone knowing. But if your under 18 some states require a parent/legal gaurdian to be with you when you have a abortion. You just have to look into your states laws. You might be late because of the stress, or the morning after pill could of thrown your cycle off.
2007-01-18 21:40:07 · answer #2 · answered by angel01182 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are old enough to have sex you ought to be old enough to grow up and have your baby instead of murdering it.I had a baby at 14 and I was too young but later on I got sick and the doctor said its a good thing I didnt have an abortion because I could never have any more kids due to my illness.Now my son is grown and in colledge . Im really proud of him. If I had had an abortion I would have nothing or nobody now. He is a gift to me.I think you should be careful from now on because your not ready .Really if it turns out your just late please dont let yourself get in this position because when you have a baby so young you lose your childhood but when you have an abortion you lose your childhood and you lose self respect.Its murder you cant just sweep it under the rug honey.Take care.Im better now but I wont ever regret having that baby at 14.
2007-01-18 23:28:48 · answer #3 · answered by butterflyspy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, there is a chance, the only full proof way to not get pregnant is, don't have $ex, i would get a pregnancy test, and go to this place called Planned Parenthood, if by chance you are pregnant, don't have an abortion, it comes along with guilt, depression, i'm sure many people could do this without guilt, but i couldn't, i don't know about you, but it's not a baby's fault it is conceived, i hope for goodness sake that you are not pregnant, because you don't sound like your ready for a child, my sister is 16, and has a 4 month old baby, we hid her pregnancy for a little over 5 months, we could've longer, but it was time for my parents, and everyone else to know, and honestly, even though she is young, that baby means the world to my parents, and to me, he is my pride and joy, she thought seriously about abortion, and so did my mom, but it was too far along, and it would have been really exspensive to have the abortion as far along as she was, but right now, she does her school work on a computer, and she takes care of her son, the daddy helps a little, but he could be here more, but the baby has all he needs, he doesn't go without, i know $ex probably feels good, i'm not sure myself, but if you aren't ready for the responsibilities that come along with it, i'd not do it again until i'm ready to deal with the consequences of it.. i hope this will be helpful for you, and hope everything goes well.. and hopefully you aren't pregnant, but if you are, it's not the worst thing in the world.. babies are awesome..
2007-01-18 22:23:30 · answer #4 · answered by nerdalicious_87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you can't have an abortion without anyone finding out. You probably are late on your period because of stress. By the way, that's why you don't have sex until you are married because you CAN get pregnant.
Use some smarts. . . not hormones.
2007-01-18 22:17:01 · answer #5 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing is to go to a ginecologist, but it also depends on how old you are, Having an abortion can be very dangerous so dont try to do it by yourself. That I know of if you go to a ginecologist they can't tell anyone without your permision about an abortion , not even your parents.
2007-01-18 21:12:25 · answer #6 · answered by karina g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the morning after pill is supposed to be a sure thing. you are only 14!!! sex can wait!!! i know it seems like everybody is doing it, but do you really want to have a baby at 14 or 15? i had my 1st son at 17 and it isn't easy now i'm 30 and i wish i would have waited. it's always easy to look back and wish that....you have the choice now though. don't be a statistic prove people wrong. them if you do get pregnant there are sooo many families that would love to have your baby and raise it. like ME!!! good luck
2007-01-18 21:16:48 · answer #7 · answered by 4.my.4.boys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go for an abortion there are all kinds of people in this world that cannot have kids and just because you may not want one does not mean GOD doesn't have a plan for that child. IF you are pregnant don't throw away both of your lives for a one night stand, or watever it was. That child is innocent give it a chance to live, even if you give it up for adoption,let it live! there are millions of young mothers that do this and see their children later if they choose to. Think about it...
2007-01-18 21:15:28 · answer #8 · answered by mommajen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible but not likely with all the protection and the abortion pill, stressing over it will cause it to be late.
2007-01-18 21:19:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go pee on an E.P.T. and find out and take it from there.
2007-01-18 21:11:37 · answer #10 · answered by jezebel625 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋