2007-01-18 12:39:15 · 7 answers · asked by Ashley 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Indy T - I am Ashley - my name is not "Top" nor is it "Bottom". Bottom is a character in Shakespeare.
My sexuality is more than just a sex role or a sex act like being 'topped'. I love the man, not the label.
2007-01-18 14:23:23 · update #1
Inflexibility has nothing to do with it.
Do you go for what you want or settle for the first thing that comes along?
2007-01-18 13:51:02 · answer #1 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I deliberately don't take either as a label. If someone asks, I'll tell them what I've done and what I've enjoyed more, but I think that with the right person I might enjoy things I otherwise would not. Furthermore, when it comes down to it, I could be pretty happy with a sexual encounter that did not involve anal sex. The whole...fascination with categorizing people is completely bizarre to me as well.
2007-01-19 01:20:32 · answer #2 · answered by Atropis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I define being a "top" or a "bottom" not so much as being a sexual position, but being a certain role in a relationship. I much prefer to be the submissive one in a relationship, or "the wife", if you will. That is just my nature. I'm submissive and like to be protected and taken care of. And I prefer to be in a relationship with a man who is more in control and more forward and aggressive, not just with sex, but with every other aspect of our relationship. I don't think there is anything wrong with it. Some gay couples prefer to share the same roles equally, and that's fine. But I'd rather be the wife. 'nuff said.
2007-01-18 21:06:14 · answer #3 · answered by Venus Mantrap 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I do not label myself as either! in bed, me and my man just go with the flow!
2007-01-18 20:57:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I prefer top..but basically I just like men. Doesn't matter that much to me.
2007-01-18 20:47:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL I'm so flexible.....oh nevermind that's giving WAY too much information!!
Thankfully we women don't have the "top" and "bottem" lables!! WHEW!!
2007-01-18 20:48:52 · answer #6 · answered by DEATH 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
WTF? okay... both..... .............. ok
2007-01-18 20:48:12 · answer #7 · answered by Rin_san44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋