One of my best friends boyfriend might be going to jail for taking out his mom's car and accidentaly crashing it. His mom knows it was him and is still pressing charges. They really love each other and it would crush my friends heart if he went to jail. What can I say to make her feel better?
2007-01-18 12:33:52 · 8 answers · asked by Chici 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just be there for her, to listen, give a shoulder to cry on, and comfort her, letting her know all will be fine. Just be a good friend. Don't put him down or make judgments.
But if this guy is really bad news, as a good friend, help her to move on. Give her some advice on how he may bring her down with him. She deserves much better than that. Help her in the transition.
God Bless You and give you the wisdom and the right words to help your friend.
2007-01-25 11:59:56 · answer #1 · answered by coolkatt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her be glad his Mom is teaching him to GROW UP and take responsibility for his actions. It is time for your friend to GROW UP and accept the fact that this is reality and to save knock off the Drama Queen "crushed heart" stuff. It makes mature people what to blow chunks.
If he goes to the slammer, he will be out eventually.
2007-01-26 12:27:56 · answer #2 · answered by morahastits 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
l would let her know that l'm there for her if she needs to talk...it's hard to just say that everything is going to be alright. If at all possible l would also try to help her take her mind off of things if only for a moment...laughter is good medicine...
2007-01-26 12:25:29 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in basic terms tell her she will nonetheless write him, telephone calls, and that 6 months will fly by technique of. clarify to her that is more effective perfect him going to reformatory (the position no females will be round) then her dropping him all jointly (breakup). Distance makes the heart strengthen fonder.
2016-10-15 10:29:31 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your friend she needs to go on with her life, sooner or later she'll find another guy that doesn't "accidently" crash his mothers car!
2007-01-26 12:33:25 · answer #5 · answered by ♥pink panther♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her because she is your good friend...she needs to get a BF that isn't a loser.
2007-01-19 06:18:24 · answer #6 · answered by Thankyou4givengmeaheadache 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont hurt her feelings. just say it will be alright, and you can speak to her boyfriend and tell him to talk to her
2007-01-24 02:21:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he did it to him self get over it
2007-01-26 04:50:25 · answer #8 · answered by patricia r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋