we have a son together.but i just do it anymore.to long of a story for details
2007-01-18 12:30:58 · 8 answers · asked by jen j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell him you want to leave, and don't be wishy-washy. Once you tell him, just leave and don't let him talk you into staying.
2007-01-18 12:36:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You get all your personal stuff in order and then you tell him you need to talk.
Tell him that for the last _______ things have been really bad and you're not happy and as far as you're concerned it not working anymore.....before things get any worse you think it's best if it's over now.
Let him know that of course he can see his son when he wants and then walk away.
If he's doing giving you money on a regular basis for his son you should take him to court....the responsibility of taking care of your son is both of yours.
Try to be an unemotional as possible....because the calmer you are the calmer the situation will be....Good luck
2007-01-18 12:46:58 · answer #2 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. Tell him that you want to stay on good terms for the sake of your son. You need to be happy. Life is to short to spend it with someone you no longer love. People say they stay together for the sake of their kids but that is the wrong reason. Kids can tell if their parents are in a strained relationship and it rubs off on them. Move on now before you end up resenting him.
2007-01-18 12:38:15 · answer #3 · answered by chemky1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to seek counseling first as your son stands to lose his dad which is very important for his growth. I'm sorry but you offer no details so I can't help feeling for your son and seeing the whole story as you might see it.
2007-01-18 12:38:07 · answer #4 · answered by beamer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be Honest about it,and tell him you true feelings. No need prolonging something,if it will hurt him,especially after five years.
2007-01-18 12:38:59 · answer #5 · answered by Ellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from experience ...... as honest as possible!!!!!!!!
if you lie then you will find yourself feeling guilty and covering those lies . not to mention you will look worse off than him to everyone even your son when he grows up . you have to be an example to him dont start his life out with a lie........just be honest
good luck!
2007-01-18 12:37:23 · answer #6 · answered by sassy4you 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest and up front and cut the ties and dont play games about it.
2007-01-18 12:36:55 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him its over and why.
2007-01-22 11:02:16 · answer #8 · answered by caribbeanmeme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋