Why do people call Asian women submissive when in reality they just have more class then other women?

Question

Personally I love Asian women, I think there is something very special about them, I love the way they look physically and believe they have beautiful souls. But I hate when people say that men who love Asian women do so because they are submissive, docile, or don't stand up for themselves. I really don't understand this, why do people take Asian women with high morales, grace, and classiness and try to take it as a weakness. Women talk about being independent, strong, and progressive but I don't really see it. More and more when these days are having kids at younger ages and out of wedlock, where as you don't see that with Asian women. Asian women women also on average are higher paid then women of other races, and also have a higher percentage of getting of getting college degrees then any other race. Also look at the skyrocketing HIV and STD infections in women, its happening to all women except you guessed it Asian women. Look at the women you see in public that are extremely loud and cursing, and then look at the Asian who carry themselves with class and don't have to resort to using that gutter language. Look at the the women who need to wear revealing clothes to get attention, you rarely see this with Asian women. Look at the divorce rates, Asian women have the lowest divorce rates of any women. How can anyone honestly believe Asian women are submissive and docile when they are so much more successful, why would they even want to act like American women?

In all honesty which one sounds more independent and progressive?
Asian women
-On average are paid higher
-On average more likely to hold a college degree
-Less likely to have have children at a very young age
-Less likely to have children out of wedlock
-Less likely to catch Aids and STD's
-Lower divorce rate
-Doesn't have to resort to dressing reveling to get attention

or

American women
-On average paid less the Asian women
-Less likely to hold college degrees then Asian women
-More likely to have children out of wedlock
-More Likely to have children at a younger age
-More likely to catch Aids or STD
-Higher divorce rate
-more likely to wear revealing clothes

Now honestly who seems like the progressive and independent one, and which one seems like a train wreck?

The problem with American women is that they think being rude to men, being pro miscues, and basically having no morales or direction some how makes them free and independent. As for Asian women I hope they never become completely Americanized, I hope they keep their sweet, classy, and caring personalities. I want them to know there are tons of men out their who love them and don't believe the submissive/docile BS.

Answer 1

What is with all this discussion about Asian verses Caucasian Women? The originator of this post is clearly biased in his views and maybe even prejudice. Women from all races are to be respect and appreciated for their differences. I can look at just about every culture's women and find the good, the bad, and ugly. I will tell you Asian women are not submissive in general. But they are more likely to accept the views of their mate and take on his direction in life. It is amazing the originator of this post does not speak about the negative of Asian woman and they do have many. I call Asian women “Beautiful Wreaks” because they are more likely to be emotionally unstable than their Caucasian counterpart.

I will tell you Caucasian women are the most independent in thoughts and actions than most other women from other cultures. If you take a look at the new spiritual movement of women' empowerment in this country Caucasian women are at the forefront of this new thinking. Because of the independence of White women White men are having a harder time dealing with a women that knows what she wants and will not settle just for anyone. For the first time in our history women are finding it easier to live their life independently than with a man that doesn't fits her ideology. Women from other cultures come to this country and get the social benefits from the efforts that White women created. American men are now glorifying women from other cultures because their requirements in men are more relaxed and Asian women are viewed this way as well.

As usual the less evolved man sees independent women as having less morals while being critical of their sexual freedom. Usually this type of man has a hard time wooing this type of woman then tries to tear her down because he feels rejected. But of course he will never admit this but you will see in his unreasonable bias of a certain type of woman.

Answer 2

Asian women can be American if they're a citizen of the USA. I'm Asian, but I'm also 100% American. Anyways, I wouldn't go as far as saying that Asian women have more class then other women. You are generalizing. I honestly don't believe that men only like Asian women because they are "docile or submissive" either.That is just an old stereotype. Some people can't seem to realize that people like people for who they are, not what they are. Oops. I didn't really answer your question. lol.

Answer 3

Maybe because a lot of Asian women are submissive!
And who says they have 'more class' than other women?

Class and submission are two seperate things and also individual things!

Just because a woman is submissive doesn't mean she isn't classy and just because a woman doesn't let a man treat her like a doormat doesn't mean she isn't classy either!

Your little statistical analysis doesn't say much, simply that American women aren't Asian women. Really? That takes a lot of brain power to work out. To answer your question about the progressive, independent woman, I would say the American woman sounds more progressive and independant!

I get that you prefer Asian women to American women, and that's fine - it's your perogotive, but it doesn't give you the right to say American (or any other) women are no good, etc.

Don't forget that I'm sure there are plenty of American women who fit your bill of an Asian woman (highly paid, don't dress revealingly, etc). But you know what? Some men are never satisfied. An American women who does fit your bill of an Asian woman would be considered high-powered, high maintenance and unattainable!

Different cultures and different people. You can't compare them. If you like Asian women, that's fine - no one's telling you that you can't.

Answer 4

By Asian, do you mean American Asian? Because a person from Asia is much MUCH more likely to become infected with HIV. Look at the Global statistics!!!! All women are beautiful. It seems odd that you would boast about class, and post a list of lies that you obviously have not researched. Where do you get your information from? Asian women are beautiful, and I hate it when they Americanize themselves with plastic surgery. That is the only thing I will agree upon here. I do not view them as submissive, docile, or classier. Sorry, but this B/S you wrote above wouldn't hold water in a bucket.

Answer 5

Envy. Men fight over women, women shame the competition. They have all that power now, which means once married they can basically stop to care what YOU want and then you go getting yourself a foreign women which has not been feminastized. Live just is not fair ^.^

Answer 6

Yep. Calling women that don't toe the party line submissive is how feminists shame women with more attractive personalities into supporting their cause.

It is as simple as that, despite the fact that men don't want feminists because they make too many demands and act in a skanky manner, they tell other women that they are 'submissive' if they don't make the same demands and that they should be appreciated for something other than, let's see here: Looks, class, trustworthiness, personality.. which basically leaves nothing to appreciate someone for.

And MSLETY, your "worth" is defined by things, it is not simply unconditional or based on your over inflated opinion of yourself. The fact that you think otherwise is an indication of why you are worthless.

Answer 7

There are classy women in every race you just have to look.I don't consider myself classy all I know is that I have my dignity.A woman's worth is way more important than class.

Answer 8

Generalizing like this makes you sound really ignorant. You obviously don't know enough about American women to make these statements.

Answer 9

1. Way too long
2. When you are a submissive woman and your any other race they call you white girl
3. Go watch some asian porn or go to Japan. They do things you havnt even thought up.
4. HIV and aids in Japan is through the roof. Maybe they have the cure and they are not sharing it..

Answer 10

check your statistics bub, young asians are getting pregnant in their teens more and more each year. why dont you move to Asia? I am sure there is some Asian woman complaining about how geeky and passive american men are.