He is a child mollestor and has all but killed my ability to make a living in this very Morale part of Texas. I am afraid of what he may do, and he is so very sly with his words. I feel like he intends to try to hardhand me and my little ones. No one wants to listen, they thing he is 'rehabilitated!'
2007-01-18 12:19:20 · 10 answers · asked by littlescreechowl 2 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
Get an order of protection from the courts. There is probable cause to determine that he is a threat to you and your family. Inform his parole officer that you do not want him back in the house. The parole officer will then make arrangements for him to live in a halfway house.
About a week or so before your son is due to be released, his parole officer will go to your house to check it out and interview you. You can tell him/her then that you do not want your son back.
2007-01-18 14:07:40 · answer #1 · answered by Kikyo 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you can only stop him from moving in with your husband and yourself, but what does your husband think about this? Why do they say that he is rehavilitated? In some cases the laws regarding molestation do put those who may have made one bad choice into prison and they can get their life together but a true child molester has a very high recidivism rate. you may wnat to keep on open mind to some extent until you see him in case he has changed but he will have to register as a sex offender and the first time he does the least thing wrong, get a restraining order against him to keep him away from you and the little ones. You may even want to make up a newsletter to warn others about him if you sense he hasn't changed and that would show others that you do not approve of him. you don't say how he ruined your ability to make a living but I assume it must have to do with children so if you show with a newletter that you are keeping him away from you and children that may help in that area as well.
2007-01-18 20:35:03 · answer #2 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be able to apply for him not to be able to return to the house considering he is a convicted child molestor but the rules on this law vary by state.
You can also try to get him out of the house by making it a rebuilding opportunity for him, a second chance at life to go and make a living for himself (depending on his age though). If he is over 18 he can legally leave home and Id say if he is 18 and living at home he should be paying rent anyways but that's besides the point.
You may actually be protected in the first place from his return as many states have restrictions on how close to a certain building a convicted child molestor can live. I've heard 1,000 feet is the common distance from a school, day care or other place of common minor use like a playground but this is the law that will vary by state; check with your state office on the issue and see what the distance is in case you live close to anything like that.
2007-01-18 20:41:14 · answer #3 · answered by I want my *old* MTV 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell this story to his Parole Officer. They will place him and help him develop a life of his own and also place him under surveilance. If he is an adult, then he will go to a halfway house or a shelter to watch and guide him when leaving the prison. The Shelter will structure him , until they see that he is dependable. He will be watched and given structure. You need to converse with his Parole board and if he has been a child molester then he can not be around your children. Simple as that. Do what you gotta do. Don't leave your kids with him at all. Another good contact is the Federal Marshal in your County. Do it before he gets out of prison.
2007-01-18 20:29:26 · answer #4 · answered by Norskeyenta 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're talking about keeping him from moving back to the town where you live, the answer is nothing. He's free to live wherever he wants, and you can't stop him.
If you don't want to be where he is, then move. Your other alternative is to wait until he tries something, then file a restraining order against him, and when he violates it you report him and he goes back to prison.
2007-01-18 20:27:04 · answer #5 · answered by Team Chief 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell your husband that there is NO WAY a child molester is moving in with your kids in the house. If your husband does not agree.......pack your stuff and get the h*ll out. You definately do NOT want a child molester in your house with your children. He could try to do something to them. I hear alot about this "rehabilitated" stuff but I think its a load of sh*t. If a person does it once they are going to try to do it again and your main concern needs to be your children.
2007-01-18 20:25:30 · answer #6 · answered by wunluv06 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are the adult of the home (or even if you are still married to his father) you will need to indicate clearly that you are unwilling to have him stay in your home.
No need for explanation, it is completley your chioce.
Communicate directly to all parties concerned.
If he shows up, do not allow him on the property and remind him of the previous conversation / letter that you wrote & that it is still how you are going to handle it. Request that he leave the property. If he does not, then call the police.
Stick to your guns.
2007-01-18 20:31:37 · answer #7 · answered by dharp66 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you cannot move away not telling anyone not neighbors and family members make sure you keep you doors and windows locked and do not let him in call the police ,you may want to check out a restrainning order just do not speak to him tell him to go away do not let him in your home protect your children at all costs they are counting on you to protect them good luck and do not fall for any sob stories
2007-01-18 20:32:55 · answer #8 · answered by Mississippi's Jersey girl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Restraining order is the legal way.
Having a friend mail him MJ from out-of-state and then reporting him for use is another.
2007-01-18 22:20:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
File a restraining order against him.
2007-01-18 20:23:09 · answer #10 · answered by dh1977 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋