Ive been ignoring one of my "best" friends for weeks now. I have found a new group of friends that i have lots of fun with. My "best" friend is sooo incredibly boring i have more fun with her mother and i am just ready to get rid of her. My problem is what is the best way to get rid of her? I need to do this soon i am going crazy im the type of person that is overally nice to everyone and this is just killing me. Please please help me as soon as possible
2007-01-18 12:19:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i think your being unfair!! you want to get rid of her because your tired of her?? Well, i wouldn't know cause i don't just dump my friends cause i don't think they're cool, or exciting anymore.
2007-01-18 12:25:24 · answer #1 · answered by Angel_Face 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had best Friend for over 17 years .WHY do you wont to dump on her!! So shes boring you sound as if you are VERY YOUNG and don't need best a Friend after all you have new friends now, and you don't need the old ones that have been there you in the past! If you get rid of her, YOU will regret it the rest of your life. ONE real friend is worth all your new friends just remember That!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-18 20:41:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for one she is your best friend for a reason at some part of your life, so I think even though you've made seems-to-better-friends, you need to not get rid of her..she's not some kind of sickness or disease, just chill out and maybe suggest for her to come with you and your other frds b/c they are so upbeat and fun to be around and maybe their influence will rub off on her or she will get the picture of how much you enjoy being with your other friends and that you want her to be like them in that way.
2007-01-18 20:45:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be able to do this without a divorce. Just start cooling things down. It sounds like you did some growing up or have begun to take more risks and those changes did not happen to your friend.
Change is constant -- let it cool down, she may be your good bud again some time.
2007-01-18 20:25:48 · answer #4 · answered by Ron H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her what don't you like in her and what is upsetting you in her actions, tell her the type you are... it might help her with her personality if you "teach her" and you in your friendship with her... if she gets angry then i guess there is no better advice i can give but just hang around with you other friends...
At least you were honest... but God knows best
2007-01-18 20:26:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a conversation with your best friend and tell her nicely that you enjoy spending time with your other friends. Don't shut her out of your life completely. It'll make her feel worse.
2007-01-18 20:23:32 · answer #6 · answered by kisses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is sad, but I guess if you are done with her rather then continually hurting her just tell her you don't want to be friends. But don't expect her to be there when your new friends who are so fun turn their backs on you.
2007-01-18 20:22:35 · answer #7 · answered by chemky1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know
maybe if u ignore her long enough she'll get the picture. but thats my opinion. dont count on it to work.
2007-01-18 20:23:00 · answer #8 · answered by chiken nugget 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u don't like her personality them why did u choose her to be your best friend anyway?????
2007-01-18 20:22:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats messed up but if you wnat it to be mature tell her face to face if you have the balls
2007-01-18 20:33:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋