sometimes he is nice to me and then he get down right rude and tell me to shut up etvc he hurt my feelings sometimes what am i to do drop him or stand up to him i love him but hate the way he treats me
2007-01-18 12:11:01 · 13 answers · asked by purplerose_1050 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
sometimes we need to loose someone that we love for a better person, if he did love you believe me he wouldn't be calling you with names or use crude words at you... you be good and drop him, his not worth it
2007-01-18 12:15:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should tell him that the way he treats you sometimes really hurts your feelings. If you tell him that and he doesn't change then maybe he's not mature enough to be in a relationship. But if you REALLY hate the way he treats you, and he's mean a lot more than he's nice, you should dump him. You can do better!
2007-01-18 12:15:30 · answer #2 · answered by Lala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
End it now before it gets worse. You deserve better. No one should tell you to shut up that is very disrespectful! Find a guy who treats you right ALL the time!
2007-01-18 12:14:57 · answer #3 · answered by chemky1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you do NOT love him. You cannot love with maturity when someone abuses you and will not stop.
No one deserves this treatment, and you must tell him he does not have the license to treat you that way. If he leaves, he leavesa, and someone out there will cherish you and not be abusive. LKove is NOT great sex. It is proper and supportice and caring actions and deeds.
2007-01-18 12:16:09 · answer #4 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you love someone who is mean to you? Do you enjoy it? There is no need to stand up to him, he sounds like a wimp anyway and not worth your time. My guess he is only nice to you when he needs something from you-he is using you and you are worth more than that, get rid of the jerk!
2007-01-18 12:16:00 · answer #5 · answered by rhonda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is treating you with disrespect he always will. It will only get worse. Get away from him. You deserve better, and if you don't give yourself better how can you expect someone else to give you better. Good luck hun...better to know he is a rat while you are dating them then marry them and find out they can't love.
2007-01-18 12:15:29 · answer #6 · answered by smwah345 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say you should break up wit him if you truly don't like the way he treats you. eventhough you love him you should also like him because he is nice, but you said he treats you wrong. i say you should do what is right if i were you i would break up with him because of the way he would treat me!
2007-01-18 12:18:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta stand up to him hun. Tell him you won't put up with this BS. If he doesn't stop, leave him. You'll find someone better. Good luck.
2007-01-18 12:14:02 · answer #8 · answered by kisses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he not really worth it if u ask me kick him in the nuts next time he yell at u love doesnt haver to hurt
2007-01-18 12:14:39 · answer #9 · answered by Claudia C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that he is hurting your feelings, and tell him why they hurt your feelings. Tell him he is moody, and you dont like it when hes moody, and you are going to leave if things dont change! but give him the chance to change
2007-01-18 12:14:00 · answer #10 · answered by Dave ! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋