***I'm not going to say actual names here***
My friend "Rainy" and my other friend "Cloudy" are going out. My other friend "Retard" told all of my friends including them that I wanted to steal "Cloudy" from "Rainy" when I was the one who set "Cloudy" and "Rainy" up! I already have the best boyfriend ever, so why would I want "Cloudy"??? Neither of them believe "Retard". She also told "Brit", "Cay" and "Stefani" they don't believe her either. "Retard" keeps saying that I stole the guy she liked last year from her (who didn't even like her to begin with) and she is saying that I'm trying to do the same thing to "Rainy". Now she is mad at everyone for not believing her when it's not true at all. She talks about me behind my back, and pretends like evrything is fine when she's around me! What should I say to "Retard" that would hurt her as much as she has been hurting me? I need serious help here folks.
2007-01-18
11:52:24
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shes just jealous that the guy liked u best but dont do anything bad to her because she might find out something about you that is actually true just talk to your other friend s and tell them that shes lying convince them then they will always believe waht u say and not what she says tell them that shes just jealous they will become more friends with u thatn with her that will hurt her
2007-01-18 11:59:06
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answered by Claudia C 2
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It sounds like Retard has hurt herself more than you ever could - people see through her and that is good.
An intelligent response would be something like, "Everyone knows that what you are saying about me is a lie, so why don't you just stop being so insecure and just be a good person?" If you don't sound angry but just let her know directly that you have her number, she will know that you are the one in control and above all the drama.
2007-01-18 11:59:59
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answered by beach 4
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My opinion of this is that Retard is not hurting you if nobody else believes her. Everyone knowing that she is a liar is already making her look bad. She doesn't need any more help.
You can call a group meeting and confront her in front of everyone about it if you really think it's necessary.
2007-01-18 11:57:07
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answered by sherockstn 4
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I think there is alot of immaturity within this friendship. You can't change other people's behavior but you can take the emotional high road. Gather everyone together and tell them what is on your mind and that you are taking the mature high road.
2007-01-18 12:03:53
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answered by mead1973 3
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being a human with weaknessess i would say an eye for an eye meaning set her up. it is obvious that she is trying to come between you friendship with others or is trying to steal your boyfriend to get back at you.so play your card right,be smart,show her you are more mature than she is by bring together your whole group friends face to face and talk to her.it may work.
2007-01-18 12:06:40
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answered by justin 2
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umm shes obviously not your friend confront her with cloudy n rainy n ur bf n make her an outcast
2007-01-18 12:00:54
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answered by AAAk2b 1
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1.) first of all, i aint your folks
2.) the one who is immature enough to seek revenge is the real "retard" {overpower her with nice-ness... it really works}
3.) apologize to "Retard" about stealing her bf
4.) NEVER SAY RETARD WHEN YOU ARENT TALKING ABOUT SOMEONE MENTALLY HANDICAPPED!
5.) when are a revenge-seeking retard, you are the one with the bad rep
2007-01-18 12:00:24
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answered by Anonymous
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sounds like next weeks soap opera, anyway, u shouldnt let someone that gossips get all your powers and emotions.
just ignore the foolishness and smile and go about your normal happy life.
2007-01-18 11:57:25
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answered by sunflare63 7
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Just tell her that you have officially changed her name and that you will now be calling her "retard"..........h ah ha ha ha
2007-01-18 11:56:15
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answered by Anonymous
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I don't know but probably calling her retard would really piss her off.....
2007-01-18 11:56:45
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answered by jstud 2
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