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2007-01-18 11:44:52 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Act like you don't care and don't even notice. Act like you're happy. Be friendly toward other people. Your old friends probably will notice that you are a fun person and stop ignoring you. If not, you will have your new friends.
2007-01-18 11:50:11 · answer #1 · answered by DustNik 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all if they were your real friends, they would not ignore you. Girls are awful, and backstabing! They are your friends one day and not the other. You are better off having one best friend. As far as the other girls are considered, they feed off of making you miserable. They love it. So if you show them that it bothers you, you are giving them power over you. No matter how much it bothers you, never let them know! That's what they want. You will always be a target, if you show them weakness. Don't be overly nice, but don't try to fit in either. Be who you are. You are important and you will find someone that will be a good friend to you. You don't need to be in the crowd. It's not what it's all cracked up to be. They talk bad about each other all the time, lie to each other to cover up lies, etc. Is that what you wan't? Is that who you want to be? Be better than they are. Be true to yourself, and everyone around you. You will come out on top. You should never try to place yourself in one certain group of people. This world is made up of all sorts of people, that are great. Leave yourself open to be friends with anyone, and any type of person. Those people are the ones who end up being the most popular in school in the long run. Think about it. If you are only friends with cheerleaders and run for student president, whose going to vote for you. Some of the cheerleaders, not all, because the jealous ones won't. But if you are friends with cheerleaders, jocks, math club, drama club, etc., and run for student president, then all of a sudden, you have a much more well rounded group of friends. You will get a lot more votes than that cheerleader will. I hope this helps. I survived highschool, and was class president and homecoming court, and this is how I survived! Good Luck!!!
2007-01-18 20:07:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like they think that you have said or done, or have heard something that they think you have done, HEY are these people your "friends" what are they up to. Only way around this is to do one of two things.First don't talk to them, put your head up high and rise above them, move on.Two, ask them, well not all of them, but the one who you think is the weakess of the bunch, and get some answers, but watch out that the time you are finshed with her she may not be a friend any more.
2007-01-18 19:54:20 · answer #3 · answered by nessie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find Better Friends.
2007-01-18 19:50:34 · answer #4 · answered by mks 7-15-02 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
make different friend these friends are not good for you all they need is to act like this one time and that lets you know they are not true friends....something just like this happened to me when I was in elementry school\ grade school I later made friends again with these friends for them only to do the same thing to me again only worse and more memorable... =) find better friends the world is too big for you to have the bad ones lined up at your front door! =)
2007-01-18 19:49:30 · answer #5 · answered by Lauren D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It will pass. Do not take it personally. However, if you did womnething to hurt someone, like rat on them, it might take a long long time for some to deal with you again. Meanwhile, study hard, join clubs, volunteer somewhere, and your life will be full and satisfying. Also, take up an instrument or dance class or art.
2007-01-18 19:49:09 · answer #6 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to Explain more! But maybe one of them told the rest to ignore you. What did you do? Are you sure you didn't do ANYTHING that would have made any of them made? Maybe you should talk to them. Or call the one that you trust most and say please don't hang up... Say Why did you guys ignore me? Do you smell. Were you wearing a weird outfit? Were you embrassing them in anyway? Can you see them making excuses up to get away from you?
2007-01-18 19:49:06 · answer #7 · answered by emilyosmentfan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get one alone, the one you're closest with, and ask what happened. Tell someone outside of your group of friends and ask if they know what happened. Hang out with others and let it pass. Give them space. Bring a book and read it if there's no one to hang out with. If you're not around them, they can't ignore you.
2007-01-18 19:50:42 · answer #8 · answered by Bacnmia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would approach one of them - the one you think would be more apt to talk to you - and ask what is going on. That way you won't drive yourself daffy trying to figure it out.
Then try to make new friends. These folks don't sound like very good friends to me when out of the blue they ignore you.
Good luck!!
2007-01-18 19:57:56 · answer #9 · answered by Oenophile... (Lynn) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them back! if that dont work then ask them what you did wrong and if they still ignore you then just let them know you are the bigger person and say i didnt do anything wrong.you're the ones ignoring me and im obviously the better friend.
2007-01-18 19:50:11 · answer #10 · answered by Kristen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋