I just want to find out how common it is for people to get married virgins.
2007-01-18 11:44:42 · 25 answers · asked by jill_andrews32 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thanks so much for your answers! I really appreciate everyone's honesty; it really helped me to get a good perspective on this. Thanks again!
I can't pick a Best Answer so I'm calling a vote, good luck :)
2007-01-22 10:16:29 · update #1
No way, not me.
2007-01-18 11:47:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was and so was my husband, two of my sisters also were and one of them married a virgin, we all were married in our early 20's. I loved it because we could learn together and not wonder if the person before us was better. To those who say you should have experience, I cannot think of any reason why that would be good, but I would say to make sure you know everything there is about what you want in a marriage, We have been married for almost 10 years and i have never wanted anyone but him, I also have tree kids and he makes me feel like the most beautiful woman in the world
2007-01-18 19:50:39 · answer #2 · answered by misheal 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope, I got married almost 10 years after I lost my virginity.
2007-01-18 22:26:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I got married as a virgin.
2007-01-18 21:11:36 · answer #4 · answered by STARS 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I did and happy to say so. Certainly my beliefs played into it, but I'm old fashioned anyway, so I'd like to think I would've desired to abstain until marriage anyway.
For some of those that did not and say they are happy they had sex before marriage, it's kind of like explaining to people that don't have kids what it's like to have them. They can't understand the gift they are lacking, even though in the short term it may look like they took the more "fun" and "liberating" path.
2007-01-18 22:51:47 · answer #5 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ahhhhh no. And...the people that I know that did are now divorced. I don't want to advertise this to teenagers but I think a little experience before marriage can lead to fewer problems of wondering once married. Sorry devot Chrisitans I know you disagree but it is true.
2007-01-18 19:49:24 · answer #6 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I will be married in June, but I have only ever had s ex with my fiance (when we were dating). I think THIS is the way to go...he is still my first (and last) but we know we are compatible in EVERY way. ......And we didn't start sleeping together until we knew we were going to be together forever.
2007-01-18 20:57:10 · answer #7 · answered by Just tryin' to help 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not married, but i am going to answer this. I really really want to be a virgin when i get married. i want to save myself for my husband and no one else.
2007-01-18 19:50:21 · answer #8 · answered by Angel_Face 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I did not hurt my husband and neither did he. But one thing bothered me is that I found him went to strip clubs before marriage. To me a boy who has been in a strip club is not a virgin anymore. I felt hurt sometimes.
2007-01-18 20:00:08 · answer #9 · answered by dancingsnow 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Probably depends on where you live. In California, not very common. Unless the guy you're dating is a momma's boy or a geek.
2007-01-18 19:50:24 · answer #10 · answered by oblivious 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
nope babysitter took that away when he wanted to play butterfly effect with me and his son i was 8 he was 7
2007-01-18 20:38:45 · answer #11 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋