my boyfriend and i are down to one car now when we first were together we had 2.. but his car died and he does not have the money to fix it so we just took it to the junk yeard.. so now we only have 2 cars.. so i am stuck home with the baby all day long.. and we were talking the other day about getting a nother car but then just relized we dont have that kind of money.. i need my own car i am going crazy... what should i do.. if i want to do anything i have to wait until his mom gets home or if she has the day off. its drving me crazy.. we live in Augsuta Maine and he has to drive to portland maine every day.. its to long of a drive to go back and forth to drop him off then pick him up agian.. cuase he dose not get out of work everyday at the same time.. and right now its winter out and i cant go for a walk its to cold.. and we live to far away from any stores..
2007-01-18 11:39:59 · 6 answers · asked by bubbles_bubbles_2003 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
Hi Bubbles, so sorry about your car situation. I'd like to encourage you to do just a few things that will help a young new mother. I remember the days well and at 22 had 2 babies and no car while hubby worked very long days trying to make ends meet. One of the things you can do to make the day so much nicer is to maintain a nice schedule for you and the baby. It will help his body maintain a rhythm that will keep him from being fussy, demanding, overtired, etc. and you sane! ;)
Also plan really nice meals for when papa gets home (and the rest of the family who may live with you.) There is nothing like to coming home to the smell of good food cooking. Have everyone who eats to help clean up the table and the kitchen. During the day be sure and keep the home clean and smelling nice. If you have clutter, get rid of it and keep everything shining nicely. It shows pride in where you live and you will enjoy moving from room to room. About an hour before papa comes home, freshen yourself and the baby up with a clean face, combed hair and a bit of lotion and greet him nicely. He will look forward to coming home and spending time with you. The baby can then be put to bed no later than 8pm and that leaves time for you and the papa to enjoy before getting a good nites rest. I know this sounds pretty "Leave it to Beaver" but believe me, all these things were taught to me by my 109 year old pediatrician and works to this day. I now have only my 12 year old at home and I only get out for part time employment. So I have been able to have days to create a warm and loving home that my family (and even grown children, along with my own parents) love to come home to. Have fun with your baby and enjoy cozy warm evenings with your sweetheart. God Bless. diannatriplett@yahoo.com
2007-01-18 11:57:57 · answer #1 · answered by DT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same exact situation. I live in a cold area too. It was 12 here today. My bf has my car all day so he can go to work. Does your bf support you and the baby? If so, then I don't think there's much you can do. Unless you want to get a job and support yourself. It doesn't seem fair but I've learned that when you have a baby you just have to suck it up sometimes. What's best for the baby must come first. Maybe he can take you out when he's off. you don't have to spend alot of money. Go out for coffee, or luch or just go to the mall and walk around. Alot of times that's what we do when we don't have alot of money.I'm really tired of it too but I don't see that there is much I can do right now. I really want to stay home with my son until he's older but I think I'll probably get a job next year. I think I can stick it out a little longer. Just hang in there it will get better!
2007-01-18 12:00:33 · answer #2 · answered by cinnycinda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you get any time away from your baby? I am a stay at home mom and let me tell you there are days i want to pull my hair out. I also am stuck without a car, so i know how you feel. I live in rural Northern Michigan. Bundle that baby up and take him/her for a walk it will do you both good. I do that with my daughter. I have a sled i put her in and we go. Enjoy the snow, tell your baby how pretty it is when the sun hits it and it sparkles. It will be a great bonding time and will get you both fresh air. It will probably make you both tired.....Nap time. Good luck. I know it is hard...keep your chin up, it will get easier.
2007-01-18 11:57:37 · answer #3 · answered by sweetnorma66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He appears like he's waking up for alleviation! At 10 months historical, he must be equipped to sleep as much as 10 hours or longer and not using a meal and be simply excellent. I might NOT suggest letting him cry it out while you realize he's hungry, regardless that. I might think unhealthy approximately that too! Is he consuming solids? You might take a look at giving him some thing fairly filling correct earlier than mattress. When he wakes up at night time, take a look at leaving a sippy cup or bottle with water in it (no longer juice, considering that that factors tooth decay) in his crib with hopes that he's going to drink it and move again out. You could additionally take a look at a pacifier. Maybe he simply desires to suck on some thing. At 10 months historical my son used to be consuming 2 solids an afternoon and consuming 4 four-6 ouncesbottles an afternoon, routinely along with his cast and routinely by myself. So he used to be consuming approximately each three hours or so. But, he used to be additionally dozing approximately 10 hours a night time, with one nap of two-three hours in the course of the day. I desire you'll discover some thing that works for you! Good good fortune!
2016-09-08 02:04:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the bus to the mall, and walk around all day. Would you consider getting a job?
2007-01-18 11:53:56 · answer #5 · answered by besitos2610 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start spending the day with some friends and family members once or twice a week, have them pick you up at your house, and let him pick you up from their house when he gets offf
2007-01-18 13:48:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋