i really need your help......?

Question

IM 14 AND 4 MONTHS PREGNANT AND CANT TELL MY PARENTS BECAUSE THEY ALREADY THREATENED TO KICK ME OUT IF THIS HAPPEND I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO IM SO SCARED ABOUT GIVING BIRTH SO PLEASE GIVE ME A WEBSITE OR SUMTHING PLEASE I AM WEARING BAGGY CLOTHS TO HIDE MY STOMACH

Answer 1

I hate to tell you this but no website can help you with this. All it can do is tell you the same thing your going to hear from everyone else. Tell your parents Legally your parents can't kick you out because your a minor and they would go to jail so don;t worry about that what you need to worry about is if your going to raise this baby or give it up for adoption. I know this is a lot to take on because your only 14. I'm 14 too so i know that this is probably more then you want put on you, but you made the choice to have sex now you have to deal with the responsibilities of your actions.

Answer 2

You are four months pregnant, and you NEED to tell your parents. If I had threatened my daughter to throw her out , it would only be because I was trying to SCARE her into doing the right thing. You still did what you wanted despite their warnings, so now it is time to just tell them They will likely not throw you out, and because they LOVE you, they will help you. There is no use for anger or blaming, and I am sure your parents will realize that after they get over the shock. You have another life to think of---your baby---put your feelings aside and tell your parents you want to face your responsibility. I would accept that from MY daughter. Good luck.

Answer 3

Okay. To assess the situation, one must stack up the obvious. You're pregnant and your parents said that they would kick you out if you are. How about your Grandma, your aunt or anyone else that understands you? I am sure they would help. Trying to hide the baby is not going to work because they would find out eventually. If you need any more information, you can email me at [e-mail]. As a subscript, try talking to your school councillor. They may also help...

Answer 4

If they already threatened with out knowing what is really going on they probably have no idea what they would do if it actually happened. Think about it if they kick you out and you are 14 its abuse not only to you but your unborn child, Where are you going to live, on the street with a baby? Your parents are human, talk to them with a mature attitude and decide on whats best together. If you were old enough to do the deed then you should be old enough to talk to them like an adult.

Answer 5

Go to the school counselor tell her what you just told us. She can help you talk to your parents and help you find the best option for your child. There are places you can go to have the chid and they will care for you and the you can adopt the child out. Or you can be lead to counseling with your parents.

Please don't do anything harmful to yourself or the baby. Please don't try to have this baby alone. You will not be able to hide the baby forever your tummy will show even under the cloths so get to an adult you trust whether it be a teacher or a counselor favorite Aunt someone at church, just go to them, and have them help you out.

I am sorry that you are dealing with this. I know it must be really scarry and hard for you.

Answer 6

I'm sorry but you're going to have to tell your parents. Tell them that you didn't mean for it to happen. If your parents still kick you out go live with a relative that will let you or if one or your friends parents will let you. There are also different homes that will let you stay there. Good luck.

Answer 7

I don't understand what kind of help you want. You can't wear baggy clothes forever, and what are you planning to do when this baby is born? Planned Parenthood can help you with some counseling, but ultimately, you're going to have to face facts. Good luck.

Answer 8

for god sakes lady, ur parents threatened u to kick u out of the house cuz teenagers who wants to have sex and get babies just to pleasure themselves is really a burden. they already threatened u, so y did u do it? its pretty much ur fault and u should face the consequences, theres no getting out of this 1, maybe next time u'd keep ur legs CLOSE!

Answer 9

you sound just like my when i was 14 and got preg i was sh*ting my self because i was a lil sh*t for my mum and she always said she gonna kick me out but in the end i had to tell her and but i told her in text and when she came round we started talking and naw am 16 my daughter is 14 months and am preg with my second one am 16 weeks gona and am still in school am starting college in september so good luck just tri and talk to your mum but can of been half as bad what i use to when i was 14 before i got preg i use to get arrseted like everytime i went out i was always drinking having a few joints and my mum found out and she was total mad head at me but when i found out i was preg everythings changed and naw me and my mum are like best friends and i neava use to get on with her. but i dont no any good web sites hun just tri and talk to your mum no matter what your think she will always be there for your all mothers are so good luck andlet us know what goes on when you tel your mum witch i hope you do

Answer 10

planned parent hood but you need to tell an aunt or something becsuae you need help and you need to be going to the doctor tell one of your adult friends now!