security in relaionships and this is the reason they get used, wanting to be loved not all but alot, trying to find love and this ends in disappointment sometimes.
2007-01-18 11:24:55 · 14 answers · asked by denise g 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i am sure women would look for security in a relationship.....as would a man.....but that is not the reason they get used. many other things contribute to THAT! too long to go into now.
of course, trying to find LOVE can end in disappointment.....ESP. if the other person does not return that love.....
good luck finding yours.
2007-01-18 11:33:12 · answer #1 · answered by STARZ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not see women looking for anything different from men, I think this is more about everyone is looking for that perfect relationship but not many find it, when it turns out not to be perfect and finishes we all react differently, men can be used for lack of security as much as women, I think you have to look at yourself (as a man or a woman) before you ask about security as it happens in both sexes
2007-01-18 20:41:27 · answer #2 · answered by tricia l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Security is only one of the things a woman looks for. If a woman is being used, it's because she's probably a giver and has not yet recognized the pattern of attracting users. Relationships work best when balanced.
2007-01-18 19:29:19 · answer #3 · answered by T Time 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you say is true for a lot of women. It's true for some men too. The best thing people can do is learn to love themselves first - and then a relationship doesn't = security.
2007-01-18 19:28:09 · answer #4 · answered by liddabet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's more about trying to play out all of the romantic movies and chick flicks that they've ever seen -- and all in one relationship.
Part of it is about rescue fantasy, someone to make it all better and protect us. That's close enough to security, but try thinking about it more in terms of Cinderella.
Also a tendency to try to over-correct what was most frustrating in the last one.
2007-01-18 19:39:11 · answer #5 · answered by The angels have the phone box. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I prefer a nice cup of tea and a piece of cake. Never been disappointed with it yet.
2007-01-18 19:35:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women should look for love from a strong christian man if they want to be loved for life.
If they seek "exciting" guys they know uses women they will probably be used.
2007-01-18 19:31:12 · answer #7 · answered by robert p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well seeing that i am kinda one...i am looking for someone who will talk to me. That they trust me not to cheat but wont cheat on me either. To let me be on my own when im frustrated and hold me when i am really sad. He doesn't have to be perfect because if he is, i would be worthy of him
2007-01-18 19:31:30 · answer #8 · answered by frost_icing 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep.
2007-01-18 19:27:41 · answer #9 · answered by Up your Maslow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spot on it just turns out to never be there
2007-01-18 19:27:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋