any ideas how can i pull myself out of this failure/sh*t?

Question

i'm a 21 year old today my birthday (though no one remember it)
recently i just been dumped by my girlfriend followed by dropping out of school then a motocycle accident hence i quit my part-time job.

i'm 21 and i'm broke,no friends...no bestfriend...i think i can't cope with this failure of life as it comes in a lump sum

i feel useless and i don't know what to do...

i love my ex girlfriend and she left me just like that by saying "sorry i don't have feelings for you anymore,it's just a crush"

furthermore today is my birthday it's the worst day of my life,i can't take it anymore.

how long do i have to wait to heal?
can anyone suggest something because i'm already out of idea what's my next move

feel like suicide...

thanks

Answer 1

Sounds like it's your turn in the barrel.
Always darkest before the dawn...etc.
Bad times usually don't last more than 9 months, so i say wait it out.

Answer 2

look, i gotta be honest with you, you are in a mess. but you are still better than other people. there are people who are starving, dying, and tortured. at least you are living. if you still have parents who will help you, contact them. there are groups that help you. right now, you have to do something that makes you happy. have a hobby? then try to make it your job. if you cannot afford your living place, go to a shelter. homeless shelters are not for hobos, they are for people who cannot afford land. DO NOT SUICIDE.

i want you to close your eyes, and think about all the good things in your life for a minute or two. think of all the good times you had ranging from grade school to this point.
this is the lowest point in your life, and i am here to help.
don't quit on life
find hotlines for people like you. you do not have a mental problem, but if you keep being down, you might develop one.
and that is scary.
just be happy.
do ANYTHING to get money
ask people if they want extra ketchup with their fries, get some money to feed yourself... and while your their, snag a french fry (sorry, freedom fry) or two.
watch comedy.
russell peters.
the daily show.
chris rock.
all of them are funny.
you might not know it, but you have more than a thousand yahoo members here to help you.
and if a bozo says you're a f*g or i'm a f*g, f*** him.
you've got a lot of support from people like me, and we are rooting for you to get your life back on track.
good luck

Answer 3

C'MON IT"S YOUR BIRTHDAY - THAT MEANS BIRTHDAY WISHES!!!!!!!! 21 OF THEM (and since you couldn't possibly enjoy EVERY one of them in one day that means you still have to be alive TOMORROW - K?)

Don't know what to else to say (Watch Finding Nemo - the part where Dory goes "just keep swimming, just keep swimming, just keep swimming, swimming, swimming, what do we do? we swim...)

IN ORDER FOR YOU TO HAVE GOOD TIMES (AND ACKNOWLEDGE THEM AS GOOD TIMES) YOU MUST EXPERIENCE THE BAD.

Anyways, I hope you feel better soon (in fact i PROMISE that sooner or later you WILL feel better). Even if you dont think so now.

Some useful contacts



If you need to talk to someone straight away please call:

Lifeline 13 11 14 (local call)
Kids Help Line 1800 55 1800 (free call)
SANE Mental Health Information Line 1800 18 SANE (1800 18 7263) (Monday to Friday, 9am to 5pm)
Suicide Helpline Victoria - 1300 651 251
NSW Rural Mental Health Support Line 1800 201 123
Lifeline's Just Ask Mental Health Information Line 1300 13 11 14 (rural areas only, Monday to Friday 9am to 5pm EST).
Mensline Australia - 1300 78 99 78.

Answer 4

I would try reading this book....

http://www.worldinvisible.com/library/wigglesworth/5f00.0930/5f00.0930.c.htm

it was life changing for me.

Thanks,
Rob C.

Answer 5

Your situation will get better. Don't go out and do something stupid just yet.