My family was very happy for nearly 15 years. 2 months ago, my husband betrayed me and dated with another woman. When I knew this, he decided to go with her, despite we have a happy family with very cute boy. My husband is trying his best to build new home although there are many dificulties with them.He told me that he want to do this because he is falling in love with her.I almost sympathized with him and also hope that I will have new happy family in the future. We agreed that our relationship now is freindship. I am encouraged with my future plan of having love with new good and kind-hearted man.Before his lover decied to say goodbye with her husband to go with him but now she chaged her mind, she want to stay with her husband. My husband is very grieve. . My heart is still broken, . I only want my husband and I love each other again. We can live together if we are in love. What should I do? Can I still keep my future plan or put more energy to build my current home? Please help!
2007-01-18 11:03:31 · 4 answers · asked by MIB 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why would you want to be with someone who hurt you so bad. It will always stay with you, how could you ever have him hold you without seeing her. I think you should find someone who would not treat you this way. Time for him to hurt.
2007-01-18 11:16:10 · answer #1 · answered by Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give in to easy. Stay apart for a couple of months and see how things go.... Dont rush in as you dont want him or this woman changing their mind again as your heart will be broken again. Keep building your life with your son your a very strong woman to have come this far.... even try dating with your husband before you deside to make a home with him again.... take things one step at atime..... And if the love is still there with both of you. You will know when the time is right to be a proper couple again... Im going through a similer situation. good luck
2007-01-18 19:16:22 · answer #2 · answered by flower 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darling all you can do is pray. I know not every one on Yahoo Answers is a true believer in God but you should be. He is the answer to everything. Good job in continuing to have a good life and a good family. It is rare that a woman supports her husbands relationship with another woman and that alone shows that you do truly love him. I say you should fallow your heart and pray.
2007-01-18 19:14:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is totally up to you and what you want to do... But whatever you do do not take him back while he is on the rebound this would not be good as he will just hurt you again. Be friends with him for a while before letting him back into your home and life.
2007-01-18 19:11:12 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋