What should i do im pregnant and 13 how do i tell my parents and what should i do plz help?

Answer 1

First, don't have an abortion--please. I understand that many people believe it's a "woman's" choice but it is truely killing an innocent child.

Please! click this link! http://www.prolife.com/ There is a number for you to call, day or night! There are many links for you there to look at and get help. If you are really mature (and I hope you are,) you will not have an abortion.

Abortion can cause many problems in a woman. Those numbers and links may help you to figure out a good way of telling your parents.

Second, although your parents might be mad at first, later they might realize that they are going to get a grandchild. Have a plan ready and explain it to them.

Answer 2

I was 17 when I had to do it, and I did it face-to-face, which probably was NOT the best option. Can you arrange to stay the night at your friend's house, and then leave a letter for them? I don't know your parents, but with mine, it turned into an argument that nearly escalated to a brawl, because they wanted me to get an abortion, but I had already decided to keep the baby (who is 9 now). If you can write a letter, it gives you the opportunity to say everything you want to, and gives your parents time to let things sink in before you guys talk, so there won't be so much initial shock. Also, talk to a counselor!!! Your school counselor if you have a good one, your pastor, or look up "pregnancy" in the yellowpages, and you should be able to find some kind of hotline, or crisis pregnancy center. Before you tell your parents, I recommend having an idea of what you want to do, and how you want to do it already, but still be flexible about hearing their opinion.
FOLLOW YOUR HEART!!!! IT WON'T STEER YOU IN THE WRONG DIRECTION!! my email is [e-mail] if you need to talk.

Answer 3

Well are you sure that you are pregnanat if not go get like 2 tests to make sure that u r not. if u r tell which ever parent is more understanding. If your dad is more caring then come up to him and say dad i am pregnant and i need your help now!!!!! and or tell your mom pretty much thre same thing. They may even kick you out though but u have to tell them because you can damage the baby and even hurt yourself.

DONOT I REPEAT DONOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! get an abortion that is so cruel it is not even funny. Do you know what they really do there??? they rip a little unborn babay limb from limb mever from nerve!!!! and they can feel the pain just for the record!!!!!!!! and they were fortoraphing aan abortion and they took pics of they baby and they saw it was crying as it was being torn apart.

well if i were u iwould tell my mom that i am pregnant and i am really sorry it was an accident and i will never do it again and right now i really need u please i neeed your guidencce or you can ask your dad that

good luck!!!!!

Answer 4

Just go to your parents and tell them the truh,they will be upset because u are just a baby but they will also be glad u told them the truth...Next step is to carry this child and put him/her up for adoption or live as a mother with the help of your parents..U are too young to get an abortion,your body is wayy to fragile at this age..Having an abortiona t this age could cause u helth issues and problems..If u really feel like u cant do this adoption ok. U are young but u can handle it if u could handle sex....good luck.,

Answer 5

You need to sit down with them and just tell them. You might start by saying: "Mom & Dad, I need to talk to you, and I need you to listen, and I need your help...."

Be prepared that they might be angry and hurt, you are their little girl. With that said however, they will still love you no matter what! And in the end they will want what's best for you.

In the mean time, you will need to start making some plans--get to the OBGYN and start taking pre-natal vitamins. You also need to decide if you are going to keep your child or give it up for adoption. If you choose adoption, there are many agencies and programs that you can take part in. If you belong to a church, there might be resources there for you, if not you can ask your school counselor or call your state's Family Services department.

Be brave, and just be honest with you parents. You are very young and will need their help to navigate this time of your life. I wish you all the best.

Answer 6

You need to tell them. Once you do, you will feel a little better too. I was 21 and was SCARED to tell my parents and once I did they were really excited. I know it is different because you are only 13, but you need to have support, especially from your family. Sit them both down, and explain to them that you don't want them to be upset with you, and know that you did not mean to get pregnant, but you just so happen to be, and you really need their support. Don't wait too long, you need to go to the Dr. and figure everything out. Good luck!

Answer 7

You really do need to tell your parents. I'm sure they will probably be very upset in the beginning, but they are your parents and they love you. They will be able to help you get the care you need and make the important decisions that need to be made. I'm 27 and married and I'm expecting my first child. I still run to my mom when I have questions because she's been through it before.

Answer 8

You have to get your parents to sit down and listen to what you have to say. There is no good way to say this at 13. As far as what you should do, that depends on your own beliefs and your family support. Whatever you do, talk to your parents soon. You need to have health care if you decide to have the baby, whether you raise him or her yourself or go the adoption route.

Answer 9

Oh My!
Be honest, you will have lost your parents trust, but now's the time to grow up. Show them your responsible enough by telling them.
Make sure you have a plan and let them know what your opinion is.
And that you are going to them for help. Explain to them that you are sorry and will do whatever it takes to make the right decision.

Answer 10

aaa thats not good but i dnt know how you feel but a friend of mine 14 got pregnent and she felt closer to her dad and her dad was out in the garage and she went out started helping him and then about a hour later of just her and her dad she told him it came out automaticly really and her dad didnt yell at her or anything he understood and knew the boy and was good friends with the parents as well they still are so whoever you are closest to try to go out somewhere like i the car because not everyone has a father like that and nobody perfect try to sit with them talk to them and then say it when you think the time is right if you cant at school you must have a connections library ao summet go tlk to them about it they are a great help said my friend