TO ARGUE with anyone that will argue with him???? i think it is disturbing...plus rude of him...should i just interrrupt and tell him just that???( he'll say something and the other person will say>no...and then he'll say "yes"...and the other one says..."no"...and it just keeps going on and on...till someone walks away...PLUS WHAT WHY IS HE SOOO OBSESSIVE.???..just agree to disagree...OH, PLUS DOES HE REALIZE he is like that...argumentative???? it is really sick...honest answers please!!!
2007-01-18 10:45:47 · 6 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just ignore him and dont play into his games and argue with him... Walk away and ignore him and he will get bored and stop.
2007-01-18 10:54:54 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he loves to argue. then he needs to go to law school so he can be a lawyer and argue professionally and get paid for it. you may have to put this person on your total ignore list. just because they are family doesn't mean that they are your friends and just because they are family doesn't mean that you have to be treated like dirt (I'm not saying that you are being treated like dirt...just trying to make a point). ignore him. totally. if he starts to argue...walk away. put on your headphones. don't try to change the subject cause he may try to argue with that also. block him from calling you...block his email address. or better yet...just tell him....'your obsession with arguing is really tired and i'm sick of it. from now on...don't talk to me cause i'm not interested anymore.' yeah it may hurt his feelings but hopefully he will get the message across.
2007-01-18 18:51:41 · answer #2 · answered by cfalways 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well talk to him adn tell him that you think hes being rude or if evryone will stop going on with it he will get tired of it and just say his point another way would be just that ask him why he feels that way and then dicuss your point of view he probably doesnt know hes doing it
2007-01-18 18:57:25 · answer #3 · answered by advise_gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow i've met several people like this. The best medicine is to ignore them.
2007-01-18 19:17:25 · answer #4 · answered by sirjames 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your relative is what is referred to as a "devil's advocate". (Always taking the opposite position.) He/she probably likes the debate and perhaps doesn't realize how obnoxious it can be.
2007-01-18 18:56:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell he or she to shut up if all they want to do is argue and quit interrutting then i'd walk away
2007-01-18 19:00:26 · answer #6 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋