What does it depend on? Why are men judged for choosing the kinder, less "challenging" woman?
2007-01-18 10:27:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
I appreciate the distinction that this is not an either-or scenario.
2007-01-18 10:40:56 · update #1
Each man has his own preferences. And there's tons of women types.
Some men like trucks, others sports cars, others clasics like mustangs, some men like the cheep reliable cars.
It's great if you like the woman equivlent of Ford Tarus (factory ready) instead of a 1969 Mustang --- as long as you change the oil and take care of her!!!
I always figure out how a guy will treat me based on what he drives and how he takes care of his car.
2007-01-18 11:28:33 · answer #1 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Why does it have to be one or the other? What on earth happened to all of the women out there that don't treat men like dogs or idiots??? I can't blame men for choosing the kinder woman, i wouldn't want a crabby, bitter, and always nagging person yelling at me either. Here is my question, why have so many women come to think that grown men need to be bossed around like children? Better yet, why do women think a man will be good enough after changing some of the things that make him who he is instead of finding a guy that is what she wants??? ......sheesh
2007-01-18 11:39:25 · answer #2 · answered by x_lil_redangel_x 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are the type of guy who wants more drama in his life, why would you choose the bittered woman. A kind woman may be just a challenging though---at some point we all anger.
2007-01-18 10:36:36 · answer #3 · answered by phoozball 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Naturally, one would think that a kind woman is better. However, I don't think it is always a matter of which one is better. It's a matter of what people prefer in their partners. Some people like a challenge, some people don't. It's that simple.
BTW, you don't have to be bitter to be challenging. To me, being challenging just means that you follow your own mind and heart and not someone else's. No two people are gonna see eye to eye on everything, and that's a challenge in itself!
2007-01-18 12:11:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some people like a good challenge.
Others prefer someone who is kind because she knows who she is and doesn't have a problem giving in, up or out.
I don't know any man who has been judged because he didn't prefer the challenge.
2007-01-18 10:43:23 · answer #5 · answered by ♨ Wisper ► 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Who the hell would want a bitter person in their life ??? That would make no sense at all. Bitter people are better off alone to dwell in their self pity.
Stick with KIND people and you life will only get better !!
: )
2007-01-18 10:52:39 · answer #6 · answered by Kitty 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
who's saying that there's only two types of women to choose from?
just because a women challenges you doesnt mean she's bitter. i consider myself kind, but if something doesn't seem right to me i'll challenge it. just means i'm not a doormat or an idiot, not bitter.
2007-01-18 10:39:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
i am hoping that a guy would what a kinder women because thats what i have to offer.
2007-01-18 15:21:34 · answer #8 · answered by Moanika 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I could write you a book on this subject, .... What do you mean by' less challenging '??? Are you saying , maybe ...someone who is less as intelligent, as yourself? or a woman who is a little mouse of a thing?And why on earth would you want a bitter woman? ..........................................................................Find someone who is just as intelligent. Some one who you could see eye to eye....I think that less challenging person would be boring...
2007-01-18 10:46:37 · answer #9 · answered by rrainn 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
More challenging!
2007-01-18 10:38:02 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋