and my sister in law (hubbys sister) just had her baby.. I feel sad that it isnt me! I know I am right around the corner but I feel like crying.I asked my husband if we were going to the hospital when he gets home and her said he is going in before he goes home.. I thought we would go together. Umm I just feel a little depressed and wondered if it was just me or have any of you felt that was after some else has there baby,.Before I have thought I would never have a baby of my own but I am know .. I hate being jeoulous!!
2007-01-18 10:00:14 · 8 answers · asked by iamblessed 6 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I'm not pregnant but a lot of people around me were. I started to really want a baby with my hubby but now after some time, I'm fine with waiting. Think of it this way, now you're have your own time that only for you..not you and others pregnant the same time.
2007-01-18 10:15:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I got pregnant with my first child it was three months after having a miscarriage. There was a girl that worked with me who was pregnant and had the same due date as the pregnancy that I had miscarried. So the whole time she was pregnant I kept thinking that could be me. Even after I got pregnant again I was still very jealous for every milestone she hit because I wanted to be there. I think it is a normal feeling. It is hard waiting that long for something as special as a child. Hang in there she will be here before you know. Good Luck.
2007-01-18 18:05:00 · answer #2 · answered by Stacey C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's just your hormones. Women get emotional over the slightest thing when we're pregnant. Don't feel jealous. Let your sister-in-law enjoy her time as a new mother and congratulate her. The attention is going to be on her and her baby for awhile, but don't feel bad. Your time is coming and pretty soon, you and your baby will be getting all of the attention.
2007-01-18 18:17:50 · answer #3 · answered by wrjones559_1999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey don't be silly!!
You're not jelous you are just a little impatient, and I was the same when I was pregnant- My best friend had her baby 12 weeks before me, and I was so desperate to meet my baby too!! I felt a bit fed up when I saw her baby but only because I wanted to show off mine too!!!! (It was both our first pregnancy)
I was constantly wondering what my baby would be like, look like etc etc!! My partner was sick of me moaning that I wanted the baby to hurry up!!!
Anyway, she is 12 weeks now and I feel like the time has just flown by- Honestly, you will soon be in labour and find yourself wondering where all the time has gone- ha ha!!!
Good luck and best wishes. xx
2007-01-18 18:09:08 · answer #4 · answered by sag1258 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I haven't felt exactly like this.. but I have felt the jealousy. My sister just found out she was pregnant and I felt jealous because she is married and has a home and more family around to support her. I just felt like she took my spotlight (I'm 5 months)... but I know I'm being crazy and am excited that we are both having babies. Sometimes its hard to turn off the jealously...
2007-01-18 18:10:49 · answer #5 · answered by shugarmagnolia420 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can relate and I think it is normal. I was 17 weeks along when my friend had her baby. When I went to the hospital to see him and hold him I felt like it was years away before it would be my turn.
2007-01-18 18:10:38 · answer #6 · answered by crazziegrl14 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just your hormones... it's OK.
Enjoy being an Auntie... your baby will be here soon (you're more than half way there).
2007-01-18 18:03:59 · answer #7 · answered by naenae0011 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
preganancy person has very strong feeling to all the things, so take care yourself
2007-01-18 18:04:41 · answer #8 · answered by wu n 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋