Here is my problem
My best friend have a boyfriend he so qute handsome intellegant and funny
since i met him i feel that i love him we could talk for hours on the phone i understand him and he understands me
we have so much things in common as we have the same horoscope as scorpion and he called me is love
my friend said that she is ready to sacrifice this love for me and him and she feels that he loves me
She met him in our friend's wedding that friend told her to invite me but she did not
She always says that she feels that she will invite our engagement at the end of the year
I do not know if i should tell her or keep it to my self and go on with my life but when i saw him i feel that i want to tell him that i love him i really do not know what should i do
PLEASE HELP
2007-01-18 09:35:13 · 8 answers · asked by Buffy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
talk with your friend about it. personally i dont find it fair that she is the one making the sacrifice. does she care for this guy...and does he care for her? who are you closer to? your friend or the boyfriend? you can find another man, almost like him, but not 100% like him you know. i'd say move on. its not right for your friend to do the sacrifice. but talk to her about it. and talk to him about it. see what they ahve to say, compair it and make a desicion
2007-01-23 11:40:43 · answer #1 · answered by Em 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the best way to handle this situation. You say she is your best friend and she will sacrifice her love for him and that she already thinks he loves you. I would sit down with her and be very honest about me feelings, but I do not think she should be the one who makes the sacrifice. You should move on, and in time you will meet someone else and you will still have your best friend. In situations like this, usually, neither one of you end up with the guy, and the friendship is never the same. Good friends are to be cherished, and are very hard to find, so be careful and use wisdom.
God Bless You and help you make the right decision.
2007-01-25 11:47:24 · answer #2 · answered by coolkatt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know about triangles in love matters ? Two is company and three ias a crowd. Have an open talk about this with your friend. One of you is going to get hurt in the end! Make this clear. This is flattering for the guy's ego! And read about the sign of scorpios dear heart!
Wait after you talk to your friend before telling him you love him. Love has many angles and sometimes what we think is love is only lust! LOL. I've been there.
Good luck.
2007-01-26 08:06:12 · answer #3 · answered by montralia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is very noble to sacrafice her relationship so you can have him. I dont think you are a very good friend. First of all you had no business going there in the first place. How would you like that to happen to you if you were in love. Grow up and get off your high horse, and get your own life.
2007-01-26 07:26:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you suck.
why would you do that to your friend.
how about YOU get some help, because that is messed up.
you dont think that he will find someone else who has the same horoscope and loves him too when you're together...
psh!
2007-01-26 07:32:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yu have a very nice friend. anyways you should ask your friend if she is sure to let him go. and then if she ses yes then you should ask him. cause you never know when something like this is ever going to happen again!
2007-01-26 07:56:06 · answer #6 · answered by HoT_AzN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u guys were really friends u whould tell her the turth and you will come clean with your feallings if he loves you he wont laugh at you trust me i know .
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2007-01-26 08:22:13 · answer #7 · answered by Araceli H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it girl you only live once.
2007-01-18 09:41:34 · answer #8 · answered by ainsley h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋