Okay, sex can be a pretty steamy subject. But it's important for us to understand how our bodies work. Here's the info you need to know:
It Starts with Desire
Sexual response for both men and women can be divided up into five stages: desire, excitement, plateau, orgasm, and resolution. Just about anything can set off the desire stage — a person's cologne, beautiful hair, an accidental touch, or almost anything imaginable. Desire can be for someone of the same sex or the opposite sex, for someone older or younger, for someone tall or short — it's different for every person, and it changes throughout life.
Excitement Builds
During the excitement phase, the body responds to its desire and prepares for sexual contact. Muscles tense. Heart rate and blood pressure increase. In both men and women, nipples may get hard, and women's breasts enlarge. Blood flow increases to the genitals, so that the clitoris swells or the penis becomes erect. In women, the vagina lubricates itself; in men, the scrotum thickens and the testes move closer to the body.
Plateau of Arousal
With stimulation, usually involving physical contact, the excitement phase gradually becomes the plateau phase. The contact does not have to be genital contact or intercourse — kissing or touching of almost any part of the body can have the required effect. During the plateau, the body remains at a heightened state of arousal.
Genitals are usually the most sensitive parts of a person's body, but for most people, other areas can also cause arousal when touched. These places — called erogenous zones — often include breasts, feet, ears. Just about any part of the body can be an erogenous zone.
Orgasm: The Climax
When sufficiently aroused, both women and men may experience orgasm. During orgasm, endorphins (hormones) are released into the body, bringing intense pleasure and relaxation. At the same time, both women and men experience a loss of muscle control, and increased heart rate and blood pressure.
For most women, stimulation of the vagina alone is not stimulating enough to cause orgasm. Orgasm usually requires more direct stimulation of the clitoris.
For men, orgasm is usually accompanied by ejacualtion. During ejaculation, the prostate gland and seminal vesicles contract, forcing ejaculate out of the penis. About 10 percent of women also ejaculate fluid from their vagina at orgasm.
Finally, the Resolution
After orgasm, the body relaxes in a phase called resolution. Heart rate slows and blood pressure lowers. The nipples, clitoris, and penis all lose their engorgement and become soft. The scrotum relaxes, allowing the testes to drop away from the body once again. Most men experience a "refractory" period, during which time they can't get another erection — refractory periods are usually briefer in younger men and longer in older men.
Making It "Good"
For sex to be "good," both men and women need to be relaxed and at ease. Some people take longer than others to become comfortable with a new partner, even if they're sexually attracted. And once involved, the process of figuring out what is and is't enjoyable during sex can take a long time. Every individual has the right to make his or her own choices, to take a relationship at his or her own pace, and to change his or her mind about any activity at any moment.
2007-01-18 17:22:29
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answered by bisexualmale s 6
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How To Satisfy A Woman
2016-09-28 09:37:51
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answered by ? 4
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I have found that its not practically possible for a man to satisfy a woman completely. The reason is a woman expects very much from you everytime. She would like to take a lot out of you.
You can make her happy but not all the time. There will be sometimes when you will find yourself unable to satisfy her.
you will experience this as life proceeds or who knows already experienced.
So the answer will be to satisfy a woman honestly make YOURSELF happy and don't set much expectations for her.
2007-01-18 17:18:08
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answered by last_desire 3
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many women need the following if they're going to reach a climax or you want to satisfy:
a romantic atmosphere
pleasant, comfortable surroundings
a partner who they really like
a feeling of being wanted and appreciated
a good flow of natural lubrication - so that the delicate female parts don't get sore
a skilled partner who knows how to stimulate the clitoris.
Unless you can provide the above, you are not going to have great success in giving your partner orgasms.
Please bear in mind that - contrary to what many men think - sexual intercourse by itself is not likely to produce an orgasm. This is because intercourse alone is not very good at stimulating the woman's clitoris. Nearly all females need additional stimulation of the clitoris by fingers or mouth.
What to do
In summary, here's what to do if you want to bring your partner to orgasm regularly:
don't be in a rush.
don't be too demanding - it's not an Olympic event.
talk to your partner, and ask her what she wants you to do to her.
always create a romantic atmosphere.
make sure that everything is comfortable and nice for her.
give her lots of kisses and cuddles before you even think about making any approach to her sexual area.
when you do start to stroke, rub or kiss her genitals, don't rush into 'attacking' her clitoris. Take things gently, and see what she wants.
use her own natural lubrication to moisten her clitoris. (If she is over 40, it may be a good idea to use some additional lubrication from a chemist or a sex shop).
remember that stimulation of the clitoris is the key to female orgasm.
sometimes encourage her to run your sex sessions. You can learn a lot by watching how she stimulates herself or by really listening to her when she suggests a sex position, or a particular caress.
2007-01-19 04:28:03
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answered by Komsat/sad 4
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Taking good care of here and making her feel free with you is very important
2015-04-22 22:22:40
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answered by Monique Browne 1
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by doing the act by which she feel satisfied.
2007-01-18 17:55:11
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answered by rulethisworldman 2
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Listen to her, love her, take care of her, show interest about her stuff, spend time with her.... show her your feelings, no matter if your friends are around...
2007-01-18 10:00:57
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answered by User 4
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just make her find good stuff in you. like manner etc. being a indian i respet other and i will show them that i would be polite and very helpful.
2007-01-18 10:48:36
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answered by Sagar951753 1
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No lies and be yourself. We woman (talking about myself) like to be pampered but I detest lies.
2007-01-18 12:21:05
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answered by Dairam 1
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Do the dishes without being asked.
2007-01-18 09:42:49
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answered by Squeegee 5
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