Real answers, people. I don't know if I'm homosexual, or bi-sexual, or just normal. I'm embarrassed to talk with my family.
2007-01-18 09:12:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I am guessing you are kind of young. So first off spend some time quietly assessing your feelings. When you close your eyes and dream romantic thoughts where does your mind lead you.......do you think of boys or girls? Who do you find attractive boys or girls?
Are you in puberty - if you are then your body might actually send you mixed signals. Most importantly find a person you trust that you can talk to about this sort of thing. I say having a best friend - a real best friend is the best therapy anyone can hope for in life.
AND once more thing, realize you do not have to rush into anything, take life slowly, one day at a time. Being normal isn't really a virtue it rather denotes a lack of courage! Be YOU that is much more thrilling!
2007-01-18 09:22:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In order for your question to be more appropriately answered, I was suggest you say why you think that you are gay. You could be gay is you have sexual feelings for someone of the same sex. You may not be gay if you have the feeling, it may pass. People made sexuality so confusing that you start to question your sexuality.
2007-01-18 17:48:37 · answer #2 · answered by LDS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you will know...if you have any sort of physical contact (not SEX) but like kiss a guy etc...and if you like it..then that should answer your question. Or if you have kissed both a guy and girl and enjoy both then perhaps your bi. Good luck :)
2007-01-18 21:55:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really I think you should stop agonizing about what particular box you fit into and just go for it all. You'll find out soon enough anyway. Enjoy the ride and use a condom.
2007-01-18 17:50:15 · answer #4 · answered by Augusta B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me introduce to you a thing called a continuum
a continuum is a line, so-to-speak, of two extremes, separated by mixtures of the two in between them. For example:
White-------------Gray----------------Black
The two extremes, with gray ( a mixture) in the middle
the same goes for sexuality
Homosexual------------Bisexual------------Heterosexual
With one end being completely attracted to people of the same sex, and the other to the opposite.
It's up to you to decide which category you belong to most, and to consider all of the factors in determining so.
2007-01-18 17:24:45 · answer #5 · answered by adamizer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, im 14 and i didnt want to accept that i was for a couple years, so if you like the d, and like guys but feel a lil for girls you could be bi.
2007-01-18 19:26:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can answer this but you. Seriously.
Only you know if you're attracted to women, women & men, or men only.
2007-01-18 17:15:38 · answer #7 · answered by Raynebow_Diva 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who are you attracted to? Have you ever had sex with a man?
2007-01-18 17:16:14 · answer #8 · answered by Michael V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't heterosexual (exclusive to the opposite sex only) then you are homosexual.
2007-01-18 17:16:36 · answer #9 · answered by ??? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you are ready your answer will reveal itself to you.
2007-01-18 17:36:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋