I transfered to a new university a couple of semesters ago, but I still feel like I don't fit in with the people here. I am still not perfectly comfortable here, and I am having a difficult time making good friends. I live off-campus, whereas most students are living in dorms-so naturally I don't know that many people. But I find myself not taking classes that I am really interested in because they require that we do class presentations, etc--and for some reason I am just lacking in confidence and feel that others students are looking down on me. And I am a minority here, although I am not sure if that has to do with anything. And at previous time, I had no trouble making friends--I am usually a very outgoing person.
Do you'll have any advice on how I can feel more comfortable here and fit in better?
2007-01-18 08:56:44 · 4 answers · asked by Samster 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, I've never attented college, but people always go through a situation of feeling like they don't fit in. Try to do things that YOU want to do; that way that's an instant connection between you and others in that class or whatever so if you wanted to have a conversation it will be easier; you know? Smile, and act confident (even if you don't) kind of like the theory "Never let them see you sweat"; that way, you can do what makes you happy and people will notice or not and it will put a connection with and others.. I've learned that it's much easier to be alone than to be alone with others. Trust me on that one. =)
2007-01-18 09:05:50 · answer #1 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok I understand what your saying right here. i've got not had the journey so i dont know the the terrific option element to assert. yet surprising out with different those that don't wanna cling out with you isn't a sturdy concept. perchance you may desire to attempt chatting with somebody and ask them in the event that they wanna be acquaintances lol. you appear to be a astounding man or woman, to me:) i'm not propose to human beings for there seems or the way they're. I propose you be the sturdy man or woman and communicate over with somebody at your college and alter into acquaintances with them. i wish this alteration into great suggestion. Lol, sturdy success :)
2016-10-07 08:58:04 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ease up a bit.Try to be more social by going up and start talking to somebody! And try to wear better clothes,so people will come up and start talking to you! Good Luck!
2007-01-18 09:13:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself get some new clothes be really social!!!!Social works gooooooood the more people you talk to you should fit in in no time
2007-01-18 09:01:20 · answer #4 · answered by ducky girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋