When is a good time in a relationship to have sex for the first time with the other person or lose your virginity? I'm not looking to have sex tomorrow, I was just wondering about when a good time would be according to random people.
2007-01-18 08:20:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
The best time would be on your wedding night.
2007-01-18 08:49:11 · answer #1 · answered by isiseamenhotep 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a man of thirty-one years of age and a daughter of fourteen, I can relate to you. She asked me this very same question. I know she is still a virgin. Trust me, I know. Here is what I told her. Although nowadays there are not many virgins running around and many young women tend to loose their virginity at a young age, you will be the one to decided when it will be your time. Athough I would like to see her wear a white wedding dress and really wear it for what it is, I can safely assume that it will not be so. You will have to make this decision after carefull thinking and consideration. Your boyfriend at this point in time is only thinking of one thing: To get in your pants and move on to the next one. Most if not all men are like this, myself included when I was not married. You might get your feelings hurt after the first time, or you might think that you made a mistake. When it happens, it is a beautifull thing. Two people becoming one is the most wonderfull thing that can happen. On the other hand, if you have a bad first time or if you are forced into it (raped), you will have a psycological scar that could last you your entire life. Your virginity is your most precious gift, give it to someone only after you have thought it through. Always ask questions to your parents about it. My daughter asks me alot of questions when it comes to sex. I am a little squeemish to answer, but I feel that she gets the right answers from an experienced man than from some fourteen year old punk who just wants to get in her pants.
2007-01-18 16:30:54 · answer #2 · answered by gleemonex69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
waiting till marriage that way you know for sure that the person loves you what do you have it in a calender what does it say wake up go to school eat lunch go home hop on bed let b/f have his way with me think before you act crying at night isn't cool because your b/f wants nothing to do with you anymore because he got what he wanted and split you little ones are so foolish when it comes to sex it is a game to you all oh well i can use protection not all STD are stopped by a condom not all pregnancies are halted by the pill you are young and foolish if you go through with it remember you don't get it back when you lose it you should really think about something before you do it why do you want to have sex anyway is it because everyone else is doing it it is not MATH class not everyone does it rather it be peer pressure or b/f pressure or media pressure it doesn't matter because you will regret it later promise you THE BEST PROTECTION FROM STD PREG AND LIFE IN GENERAL IS NOT TO DO IT BEFORE YOUR MARRIED PERIOD besides think on your future husband do you really think he will like driving a car that has a lot of mileage or one that is new and he knows what is what with it i think he would like the new car better don't you THINK BEFORE YOU ACT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-18 16:38:46 · answer #3 · answered by THE WAR WRENCH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good time is when you and your partner feel comfortable and committed to each other. These days there are so many things that sex can bring, from pregnancy to incureable STD's. You should know your partner really well and he, you before having sex.
2007-01-18 16:24:40 · answer #4 · answered by fangtaiyang 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After careful discussion, and mutual agreement, choose a time when both parties have sufficient time to devote to both the sex act itself, and a thoughtful discussion afterward.
It might also be a good idea to have friends with whom you can discuss the subject available both before and after.
2007-01-18 16:24:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will not get a good answer to this question from the Internet. Look within yourself, because this is one of those things for which there can be no general rule.
2007-01-26 03:15:44 · answer #6 · answered by JD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gleemon... and The War Wrench have the answers you are looking for. You need not look any further than those two answers. Together their answers could not be out done.
2007-01-26 08:01:06 · answer #7 · answered by major b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you realize you can't take it back.That if you do the crime.Are you willing to the crime.Are you willing to do the time?What about being knocked up ,AIDS ?Can you guarantee where he has been.I'm not saying he is a bad person.What if he runs ?
2007-01-18 17:05:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For your first time, it's important that you make sure it's right, and if you have to ask yourself if it's right, it's not right. You'll just know. I promise you that if you don't, you'll have regrets about it for the whole rest of your life...
2007-01-18 16:23:46 · answer #9 · answered by sdkramer76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have the three of the following go ahead
1-some one accept you
2-some where to do
3-some power for you
waiting to feed you back
2007-01-25 05:13:22 · answer #10 · answered by confirmed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋