everytime my girlfriend gets pissed at me, im like, "i know ur not really mad at me, its just ur hormones." then she gets even more pissed n is like, "its not my ****** hormones! u really do piss me off!" i wanna know wat her problem is.
2007-01-18 08:08:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Women dont get angry because of hormones, they get angry and then the hormones make it easier to react in that anger.
The issue is still and issue. If you did something to piss her off, then there is a problem to be dealt with, and in her attempts to deal with it she has a hard time staying calm and rational.
Acting like theres no issues and no problems and she's some how magically angry for no real reason is a misconception on your part, and makes her feel unviable and unheard.
Way to go genius.
Lets put this into perspective.
You come home and dont talk to her when you get there. She gets pissed and asks you what your problem is. You say nothing. she flies off the handle and says you're a horrible person and she hates you and seh hopes you die as miserable as she is.
The issue is that she waited all day for you to get home and she feels ousted that youre not there to show your affection. Her hormones caused the fight that could have been avoided by you asking her whats wrong or giving her a hug and calming her hormones.
So her fault is over reacting because of her hormones, and your fault is not being sensitive to her instability.
2007-01-18 08:21:19 · answer #1 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hormones aside, do you get even more upset when someone tells you to just calm down when you are obviously angry? Well I think what she is so mad at is the fact you are being very arrogant the way you are telling her. If I were you I would not say that at all and just deal with it because if she is not really mad at you and it is just the hormones then the same hormones will let it blow over and she will be all over you with in ten minutes. If she really is mad at you then she might not let it go that easy. But the statement " I know you are not really mad at, it's just your hormones" would piss me off wether I was pregnant or not. It's like saying I have done absolutely nothing wrong you are just PMSing. Put yourself in her shoes. Think about the type energy it would take to sustain a human life with in your own body and maybe that would put it in perspective for you. Obviously there are lines that shouldn't get crossed just because she's pregnant but if you pick your battles and let some stuff blow over I bet you will both be a lot happier. I wish my fiance was home so I could yell at him for no reason. But he is in Iraq. He already told me that he is sure it would be annoying at some point but the fact of the matter is that he hates that he can't be here to get yelled at. It's really one of the only trrue ways the father can experience the pregnancy too.
Well Good Luck and don't worry. They calm down after a few months.
2007-01-18 08:37:14 · answer #2 · answered by Jamie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are making it seem that her feelings are just because of the hormones. Maybe she wants you to take her thoughts and feelings seriously and not treat her like she's a mental case. Evidently her problem is you! Dont dismiss her feelings like that as if they dont count just because shes pregnant.
2007-01-18 08:25:30 · answer #3 · answered by elaeblue 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she really is pissed at you. It's not always "hormones". If my husband is acting like an *** than he's an ***, pure and simple.
2007-01-18 08:28:07 · answer #4 · answered by Curious J. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh its the hormones...trust me my ex used to say that to me all the time when I was preg with both kids!!! My suggestion is stop reminding her that her hormones are out of wack..no one wants to hear that!! When she gets mad just change the subject or suggest that she goes for a walk or a nap or walk away your self to avoid making the arguement worse and stay clear of telling her that she really isn't mad at you its the hormones it gets old and irritating to hear!!! Good Luck and Congrats!!!
2007-01-18 08:20:20 · answer #5 · answered by MLP 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You really do piss her off...what is YOUR problem?
2007-01-18 08:53:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BECAUSE YOU SHOULD JUST SHUT UP AND LISTEN TO HER AND MAKE HER FEEL LIKE YOU UNDERSTAND WHERE SHE'S COMING FROM. AND SHE KINDA HATES YOU MORE NOW CUZ YOUR NOT GOING THROUGH THESE CHANGES LIKE SHE IS, SOMETIMES I CAN'T EVEN STAND MYSELF.
2007-01-18 09:15:40 · answer #7 · answered by VeeCheer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are patronizing
2007-01-18 08:31:39 · answer #8 · answered by Serry's mum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋