ive asked 2 questions but i have been confused about the answers for example people are saying you are gay or bi but what you dont understand i dont want to be none of these.
i was straight for 19 years i dont find men attractive just the gay thoughts are making me feel sick.
i just want these thoughts out of my head than i will feel much better. In the night i dream about women when i masterbate i think about women i have got a thought in my head and it wont leave me how do i get rid of it.
Im asking for help not directions I JUST WANT THESE THOUGHTS OUT OF MY HEAD I DONT WANT TO BE BI OR GAY I JUST WANT TO GET BACK TO NORMAL.
This just happened out the blue i wanted advice but when people say you are gay or bi it makes me feel like s### i want to be normal again the last 19 years of my life were perfect its just thoughts at the end of the day and some people can accept been bi or gay but some people can never accept it .
please dont get the wrong idea thank you
2007-01-18 08:06:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If you really can't get rid of these thoughts then you need to go and see a professional counsellor. You may even have obsessive compulsive disorder which would explain why you can't get rid of the thoughts. From what you're describing I think your need for help and advice goes far beyond what anyone on these pages can give you. Good luck to you.
2007-01-18 08:15:31 · answer #1 · answered by Bethe W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're a late bloomer.
Anyway, while many heterosexual may not admit it, homosexual thoughts can come up once in a while. Maybe this is a phase that will go away. However, if it doesn't, then denying that you might indeed by gay or bi likely won't help you in the long run. It could lead to problems of denying who you really are. If this really is the case, maybe you never were meant to be "a normal heterosexual".
However, it likely gets a lot more complex then this and the labels of gay and bi likely won't do justice.
2007-01-18 16:24:15 · answer #2 · answered by Ievianty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever tried to think just about anything-nothing in particular, just anything. If your mind goes in the direction you dont want it to go in then make yourself think of different things. It might just work. I dont understand how someone can tell somebody else they are this or they are that--------I thought by now maybe for once people would not judge people by their looks but by their actions such as how they treat others. I guess there are just too many people that want to judge someone by their cover instead of the inside of the person. Think positive thoughts and you will be able to change the direction of your thought and thought patterns.
2007-01-18 16:33:53 · answer #3 · answered by nickle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some psychologists will say that the occasional thought of being gay or bisexual is common and normal. A lot of teens and you are still a teen even if your at the end of it, have these dreams. If you are not acting out on them then don't sweat it, you are perfectly normal. Let it just roll off of you.
2007-01-18 16:13:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are u saying that being bi or gay isn't normal!!!???? That's alittle..... mean!, racist!, etc.
Live with who u r, if ur one of the two, so be it, but being bi, u still like women
perk up
btw, I'm straight (possibly bi)
2007-01-18 16:17:47 · answer #5 · answered by XC_HS_movies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you don't want to think about guys that way than don't think about them.
Have you considered talking to somebody about this?
Maybe this site can help you?
http://www.changethatsrightnow.com/problem_detail.asp?SDID=4198:1602
2007-01-18 16:25:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your bi, maybe your not,maybe its horemons,maybe you have a sick mind. idk, i like guys and girls. i dont get your question you have thoughts of gay sex? maybe your mind is just curius
2007-01-18 16:13:27 · answer #7 · answered by Confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋