My husband says I have a addiction to sex, just because I want it all the time and of course do it myself at least once a day. He says its causing a problem in our marriage, I'm going to be 21 in less than a month and my husband should still want it all the time. Now would you think I'm a nypho? Or is something wrong with my 24 year old husband?? Really what 24 yr old man that has a woman willing to do it anytime any where have a problem with it?
2007-01-18 08:05:55 · 18 answers · asked by ERICKSMAMA 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I see several responses above mine by men who are sucking up to you because they would like to get into your pants. The truth of the matter is that if you want sex "all the time" (your words), yes, you do have an unhealthy preoccupation with sex. It could be considered an addiction if it harms your health, job, or one or more significant relationships. By being so demanding of your husband, you are making him resentful, so your sexual appetite is harming your relationship. Relax a bit. Be moderate in all things.
2007-01-18 08:23:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad I'm not the only young woman who is married to a man who's sex drive seems seriously impaired. I was always told he "has to be gay, or cheating." But if you do some research, there are a lot of things that could be causing this loss in libido, like drug abuse or medical issues like depression. It all depends on the aspects of your life together, like work situations and stress levels. Just know, you are not alone.
2007-01-18 08:42:49 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley Marie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am 32 and I feel the same way you do. My husband is okay with sex three times a week and everyday I am trying to get some. I did discover that on the days he doesn't feel he needs it, if I start off with oral sex he will come around.
2007-01-18 08:20:53 · answer #3 · answered by heaven o 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you can confine your lust to him and yourself, no problem. A true nympho would be out trolling the streets and bedding anyone out there. There may be something wrong with your husband, we don't have enough info about how often he DOES want to have sex. Remember though, there ain't no man alive can match a woman trick for trick.
2007-01-18 08:16:05 · answer #4 · answered by SA Writer 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He needs to step up and get busy and take care of your needs and desires. He has no idea how many married men are not getting sex but once or twice a week and have to resort to taking care of it themselves. Most men are thinking what an idiot!! Anyway - good luck.
2007-01-18 08:27:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he in a stressful job? I know from exprience if a guy is under alot of stress like from work, it can kill his sex drive.
Happened to me at about that age because the job I was in I was under alot of stress for a couple months and it really hurt my wife and I when we wanted to have sex. I got really depressed at the time because of it, because I didn't feel I was able to sexually please her like I should. But she was great in the way she handled it. She helped me feel that there were other ways I could pleasure her.
2007-01-18 08:44:23 · answer #6 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are really serious about fixing this problem, and it is a problem if it is disrupting your relationship, I suggest you consult with a therapist who has expertise in marriage and family or sexual counseling. Nymphomania is a pathological condition and you should seek professional help to see if that is really your problem, or if it is just a disconnect in your relationship.
2007-01-18 08:33:21 · answer #7 · answered by Wiz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is sitting on a gold mine and he does not want to mine. I am a lot older and would love to be able to get it at "least" 3-4 times a week. Can I go over and smack him???????lol
2007-01-18 08:17:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hay its normal - and it sucks - i 'm like u. It dosen't get any better on his side - the first 2 years were great - but then he slowed down - i still like it all the time - its gonna cause problems.
2007-01-18 08:15:40 · answer #9 · answered by xwasanasss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would have to be formally diagnosed by a psychiatrist. You may have emotional problems that have nothing to do with physical sex; just using it to fulfill something.
2007-01-18 08:51:49 · answer #10 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋