I'm a lesbian. But lately I've been thinking about sex with man; strangers and in 'weird places'. Help?

Question

I've been with men before ..... about 8yrs back. I was young. Been with 2 guys, had sex with them. none of which was worth remembering was we were both inexperiened. I started dating girls 4years back and have never looked back. I love women and I can't imagine having a male partner.
These thoughts of mine are killing sex between my gf and I.

I've been with men before ..... about 8yrs back. I was young. Been with 2 guys, had sex with them. none of which was worth remembering was we were both inexperiened. I started dating girls 4years back and have never looked back. I love women and I can't imagine having a male partner.
These thoughts of mine are killing sex between my gf and I.


Ok, alot of people are asking me to go ahead and try it out. But where do I find a willing, open, experienced guy??

Answer 1

Simple question gets simple answer:
Get a man to have sex with. Preferably a guy who knows what he is doing when it comes to sex and he has to have a big one. You could do this alone or have a three way with your gf. This will get rid of the thoughts of wankers and the thoughts of strange men and when you have sex... do it some place daring like the movies or in a parking lot or park. Gives ya a thrill the thought of being seen or getting caught.
Hope that helps.
Good luck.

Answer 2

After 50 years of research, we know that almost no one is completely straight or completely gay. Most of us are somewhere along the delicious middle of the spectrum. Just remember thinking about having sex and actually having it need not be the same thing. If you're sure you want it, then go for it! Enjoy! But until you feel strongly about trying a man, think on it just a bit longer.

Answer 3

I'm sure you'll get lots of volunteers, but I'm not available myself. I don't imagine it's unusual for people to think about sex with people other than those of their customary orientation. As children, Freud says, we are polymorphously perverse. We like sex because it feels good, and fantasies are not strange in and of themselves.

You'll either act on these thoughts or not, and the results will be that you will either expand your horizons and include us fellows in your sex life, or you will find that it was just a passing thought.

In any case, have a marvelous time.

Answer 4

Have you tried pursuing a relationship with a man, both emotionally and physically? There is nothing wrong in experimentation, its your life, you should seek that what makes you happy. have you tried seeing a therapist to talk about what you would like in partner. I know both men and women can give you what you need emotionally, but they both differ in what they can give you intimately and physically. Maybe you arent bisexual, but if you are looking for a partner you are going to have to choose one sex.

Answer 5

outdoors by using a lake, purely to verify later, the stressful way, that there exchange right into a style of poison ivy there! oops! consistently lay a blanket down first mutually as killing time waiting for the fish to chew! hehe...

Answer 6

that is common- i know many gays and lesbians who often dabble in straight sex . Do not think for a minute that straight folks don't find the other side alluring!

Answer 7

Perhaps you're just bored,or fantasizing. Who doesn't fantasize?
One of my fave fantasies is with a stranger,ya know,pick them up at a club,take them home,have great sex with them,oh,no,wait,done that,lol....UMMMMMMMMM,wouldn't worry about it unless it interupts daily activities. Otherwise,if you're single,then act on them,but be safe about it

Answer 8

Maybe you havent had sex with a real lesbian

Answer 9

I think none of us is 100% straight and 0% gay or vice versa hence we all have a little bit of bi in us.

Answer 10

try it just to see where you stand emotionally but be careful with the strangers hun, can't trust anyone, good luck