We're both happy in new relationships and live far away. But he was my first and I will always have this special place in my heart for him. OK, sounds really sappy, but it's true. We keep in touch once in a while. Can I still think of him and send him a card for Valentine's day?
2007-01-18 07:45:06 · 8 answers · asked by pamgissa 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ofcourse u can, why not, but based on what, i mean u will send him as...?
i think there is no problem in sending him a valentines.... as a friend
u can send it to him and his g/f, from u , this way u can really stay together for ever
valentines is for everyone after all.... but love is just for one... and i think he already has his one... so maybe u can be "the" friend
2007-01-18 08:10:06 · answer #1 · answered by grace_myth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it would not be OK for you to send him a valentine. Valentine's day is for couples, and you and your first love are with other people now.
Think of how his girlfriend would feel if he were to receive a valentine from an ex girlfriend?
First love or not, sending an ex a valentine, especially if he is involved with someone else is just not right.
Keep him in that special place in your heart, he was after all your first love. But since you are both with someone else, there is really no need to send a valentine to him.
2007-01-18 16:12:46 · answer #2 · answered by honestly sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's appropriate to send him a Valentine's day card. Maybe you could wait until after the holiday and just send one of those friendship cards that are funny and just say you wanted to say hi.
2007-01-18 15:50:39 · answer #3 · answered by lickitysplit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont make it like a lovey kind of card make it like happy valentines day im glad we r freinds he will appriacatie it but he wont get the wrong idea
2007-01-18 17:24:28 · answer #4 · answered by jess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if your new boyfriends first love sent him a valentine? Not cool at all.
2007-01-18 15:53:59 · answer #5 · answered by EMILY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont see why that would be a problem i think its sweet to rember him . Good luck ...
2007-01-18 15:49:00 · answer #6 · answered by Heaven <3 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell No
what would the new person think
2007-01-18 15:48:16 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!
2007-01-18 15:48:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋