2007-01-18 07:25:35 · 12 answers · asked by James C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You loser, yes tell your wife so she can leave your sorry butt.
2007-01-18 07:30:16 · answer #1 · answered by mvas800 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Never a good idea to have sex with the ex, unless you want to get back together. It sounds like you didn't mind the sex and will probably end up doing it again.
I assume you've cheated on your wife/wives before? The phrase "once a cheater, always a cheater" is usually accurate.
If you plan on having 2 ex-wives, go ahead and tell your current one.
2007-01-18 15:37:09 · answer #2 · answered by oblivious 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your wife will not be happy just because you cheated on her with an ex. Telling her is not the answer. All you do is ease your own guilt by dumping on her. Stay away from the ex and try to be worthy of the current.
2007-01-18 15:59:30 · answer #3 · answered by SA Writer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am guessing you want a serious answer to this.. i will give it to you.. i am guessing also that you and your exes initial relationship was based on sex.. all exes tend to go back to their initial thoughts of why they were even interested in their ex. first question is: why were you in contact with your ex? kids? then that is understandable.. what you have to do is to define your relationship and make your barriers and dont break them.. if you and her are just friends.. then you are setting yourself up for failure. we always go back to what we know as "SAFE". having sex with an ex is just that unless there were trust issues that ended your marriage.. as for telling your wife, yes you need to tell her! because you are going to start acting weird about the subject of your ex and you will start to lie to your wife and one lie will lead to another one... and then before you know it, you are living one big and wondering how the heck you got there... not only that, she will have suspicions and start to wonder if you are having sex with your ex every time you walk out the door.... sit her down and talk to her and let her know how much she means to you and that you will never do it again and how much you love her..... dont let lies lead your life... you screwed up, now fix it
2007-01-18 15:46:49 · answer #4 · answered by hardscout69 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh don't tell your current wife..what good will it do????? I think its very common..I know a lot of ex's that still go back for the booty call... But beings you are remarried..don't let it happen again!
2007-01-18 15:33:44 · answer #5 · answered by Sharlala 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do not be alone with your ex-wife again ever! and pray your present wife don't find out because it will probably destroy your marriage.
2007-01-18 15:33:55 · answer #6 · answered by Ynot! 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you have real problems dude. I could give you a whole bunch of responses that you won't listen to, so I'll just tell you that I wish you luck. You'll need it.
2007-01-18 15:37:20 · answer #7 · answered by txguy8800 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's common the trailer parks.
Yes, you should tell your wife. At least be man enough to be honest afterwards.
2007-01-18 15:31:37 · answer #8 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I sure glad your not my husband!! That would be a hard one to swallow. don't ever be alone with your ex again....... and tell your wife. that you will never do it again Good Luck! P.S. pray for forgiveness
2007-01-18 15:41:25 · answer #9 · answered by Bonduesa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man up. You screwed up (literally), so take the consequences and shut up about it.
2007-01-18 15:33:56 · answer #10 · answered by daj11551 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not common at all. Do not tell your wife.
2007-01-18 15:30:28 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋