I am in love but I am not sure this person will be the right one for me to build a family.....
2007-01-18 07:22:14 · 7 answers · asked by Arnaud M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think she is not the right one because I fear (am not sure) she is kinda irresponsible...she only wants to look at the bright side of life...which is beatiful but life is not only made of good moments...what if I need some help when going through a rough time?? Will she be there for me, or fly away to another brighter spot ?
2007-01-18 21:35:55 · update #1
You have to trust your gut....and just know that nothing is guaranteed. Know your standards and expectations. You should also know what you can live with and what you can live without. The main thing is to make sure that the two of you are both working towards similar goals together. If yours or hers are too far off from the other , then that will definitely affect decisions that you will make in your marriage. You will have to remain selfless and compromising to work with someone else. If you feel you can't do those things then that woman would not be a great wife for you. As far as your question goes......you have to trust yourself. Trusting isn't knowing. You can trust you are doing the right thing but you won't know until your not.
2007-01-18 07:30:25 · answer #1 · answered by heaven o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray about it.
See if she has the qualities that you want to see in your children. You are going to have to be with this woman forever....just think about it for a long time...there is no rush with a decision this important. .....Trust your feelings....follow your heart.
Good luck!
2007-01-18 07:26:50 · answer #2 · answered by CPA2B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not sure, then you should listen to your doubts. Take your time getting to know your girlfriend better until you are either sure that you want to be with her forever, or you are ready to move on.
2007-01-18 07:26:33 · answer #3 · answered by Tamara K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not sure then the answer is probably no.
2007-01-18 07:35:00 · answer #4 · answered by . 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't trust anyone, they will cheat or leave one day. so just go out and have fun
2007-01-18 07:31:06 · answer #5 · answered by bone 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know thi sound cliche but...you will know in your heart. Honestly!!
2007-01-18 07:56:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well what makes u think---that this person is NOT ms. right???
2007-01-18 08:05:03 · answer #7 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋