2007-01-18 07:22:09 · 10 answers · asked by insanenaughty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have been with the same guy for 2 years. Sex all the time... then moved in with him about 3 months ago and no more sex unless i initiate it. I think stress and depression has a lot to do with it. These things totally squash libido. Try talking to him.
2007-01-18 07:27:37 · answer #1 · answered by eboogie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be things that have nothing to do with you. It could be problems he is having at work and he thinks about that all the time. I know my husband is always thinking about his kids, work and his mind never shuts down. If I don't initiate it...it would never happen. That is what I would do if I were you. Just be playful and loving and see what happens. What can it hurt. The signs of cheating are...someone that changes their looks or tries to look nicer. Takes an interest in their weight...try to loose some. Wears different clothes because the new woman bought them for him. Is wearing different cologne. Spends a lot of time on the computer or the phone (talking to that person). I found this out the hard way, because my first husband cheated on me and I missed all these signs...till a woman called for him one day.
2007-01-18 07:32:39 · answer #2 · answered by hard rock girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to sound flippant.. but it could simply be familarity & same old thing syndrome.. it happens.. a lot...
could be curlers, drab ol jeans & T-shirt and yes honey your *** is to fat syndrome as well (looks DO COUNT.. I dont care what anyone tells you)
Could also be some health problems mental/stress problems etc.
why not just ask? But be ready to accept the answer if you seriously wanna know.
Could be any number of reasons.. why not just ask? But be ready to accept the answer if you seriously wanna know.
2007-01-18 07:42:00 · answer #3 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some times a guy can go throgh a "dryspell" where sex is the absolute last thing on his mind there are alot of thing that can trigger this "dryspell" like financial worries and things like that but do not push the issue because that can drive him futher into the "dryspell" tyr just asking questions about his job but stay away from the "dryspell" issue hpoe this helps
2007-01-18 07:36:07 · answer #4 · answered by shadow1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this might sound too simple, but have you sat him down without being accusing because that will only make him defensive , and say dear why have we stop having sex is there a problem?
2007-01-18 07:30:03 · answer #5 · answered by Ynot! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is sick of being the one who always initiates it?> I know my hub gets like that soemtimes, he wants me to attack him once in a while..which i do..he just hardly gives me the chance to be the first one to move on it ya know? I say just seduce him.....plain and simple. Don't look too into and dont try to talk until AFTER ya'll have done the deed...
2007-01-18 07:30:22 · answer #6 · answered by Sharlala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him what is the matter. shouldn't be this way. sometimes this happens when they are seeing someone else, or someone else is on their mind. sometimes they may have alot of stress they are dealing with, maybe they are having some crisis, and having trouble working it out. but cheating is the main reason usually.
2007-01-18 07:33:39 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did u gain weight??? try making a nice dinner by candlelight and seduce him...then see what happens
2007-01-18 07:47:50 · answer #8 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is tired of the familiarity. Try something new.
2007-01-18 07:37:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is cheating on you. or he is gay it is one of the 2
2007-01-18 07:31:54 · answer #10 · answered by bone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋